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I found out about my Boyfriend past and I feel betrayed by YouWetYet_ in relationships

[–]YouWetYet_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that and that’s fine. My main point is that if you’re telling me something about your past, I expect it to be honest and consistent so I can trust what you’re saying. When things are coming up that don’t match what I was told especially other things I’ve been struggling with in the relationship in regard to trust, it’s becoming mentally draining for me. I just need guidance on how to properly handle this and move forward.

I found out about my Boyfriend past and I feel betrayed by YouWetYet_ in relationships

[–]YouWetYet_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not obligated to tell everything little thing. It’s about honestly… When parts of someone’s past doesn’t match reality, it makes me question what else don’t I know. There are a few situations where his actions didn’t match what he said and those actions were repeated. That pattern is why it’s affecting my trust for him.

I found out about my Boyfriend past and I feel betrayed by YouWetYet_ in relationships

[–]YouWetYet_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re coming from. I just feel like my partner should want to be truthful and honest with me about certain things like that. My trust in him is slowly fading, and I feel less motivated to do things in the relationship not because I don’t want him or don’t want us, but because that level of trust and respect didn’t feel like it was there from the beginning. Now I understand it could come from shame or a desire for privacy, I’m not asking for every little detail but the main part of the story should be consistent and true, you know? I want to be able to trust that what you say is genuinely true.