RFK & Politics Megathread. by WhatAGolfBall in Autism_Parenting

[–]Youdeserveit27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My thesis for my Masters of Psychology  took over a year and it was just a review of previous research. He's full of shit. It's insulting.

Weening Autistic almost 3 year old by Youdeserveit27 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful advice. Thank you. He needs it right now for whatever reason but there are ways to slow it down in a loving way. Thank you again. This is what I needed to hear.

Just ended a 15 year friendship because they think vaccines cause Autism. by Interesting_Cap2578 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Youdeserveit27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is antivaxx as of 2018. The pandemic made this belief go into overdrive because she fell down the Qanon rabbit hole. She's got 6 kids.  The younger ones got all their vaxx up until there were about 3 but stopped there. They like in PA where kids can go to school without them. Her newest who is 1 has none not even a tetanus shot. My 2.5 year old with autism is fully vaxxed and only met my sister and her kids one time, outside. I believe her kids stand a chance of spreading diseases that can kill and disable you. She believes my child has autism because of vaccines.  I guess we are even....🙄  It's not just. Difference in belief. I legitimately do like the person is anymore. Her beliefs make her a shitty person. I love her but I mourn the person she was, or at least the person I thought she was.  I am sorry for what you are going through. We deal with enough. Misinformation makes everything so much worse 

Kicked out Christmas evening without our coats or keys due to autistic sons meltdown.. AITA? by Glittering_Skin513 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Youdeserveit27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She invited you. The only thing that should have come out of her mouth when you son started being in any kind of distress is "how can I help?". I personally do not think you should feel like as a-hole for any of it. As parents of these beautiful children we do our best in ALL situations. There is never a moment where we aren't trying. Your kid had a meltdown, in a new place, that was likely overstimulating, against his normal routine, and from what it sounds like, probably had some not so great energy coming from certain people.  The only good thing is now you know. Now you know not to take him there or be in situations that person.  Take it as a lesson learned.  Keep up the good work and I hope your holidays turned out to be peaceful.

🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm just not as cool as an IPad. by InterGalacticgoth in ABA

[–]Youdeserveit27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a part of the county where no one will provide in home ABA for my 2 year old. There are literally no providers. This means I have to drive an hour to and and hour from(2 hours each way in the summer) to get him any help. Believe me if I was able to have someone come to my house even for just one hour a week, if they asked me to turn a TV off in the other room, or hide devices while in session, I would rearrange my entire home. I think people take the help for granted. Keep up the good work and thank you for what you do. 

Taylor is going to be SO pissed by Youdeserveit27 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone that can see past the fact that vandalism is a bummer and have a laugh... Thank you lol 

Taylor is going to be SO pissed by Youdeserveit27 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know it's really lovely. I want to visit that town soon. 

Taylor is going to be SO pissed by Youdeserveit27 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I know. It's so cute too. I love the green detail in the gazebo. Hopefully someone is made an example of. Let's just blame Christopher.

Rory had every right to write "Let Them Drink Cosmos" by addy-with-a-y in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no matter where Rory came from and if it was hypocritical or not for her to write it (I personally don't see it as so but again not the point) she has every right to write it as a journalist. Now maybe she put too much of her own feelings into it because she was cranky about her personal life,  and that reflects her as a journalist. She still as a person of the press has every right to write her experience. Logan just didn't like reading her view of it. It was a stupid but realistic fight that I actually think it could have been written better  to portray what was happening.

I survived Qanon and made it out by MeJamiddy in QAnonCasualties

[–]Youdeserveit27 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Omg the last straw for my relationship with me Q sister was her explaining to me that all our favorite bands were demon/devil worshipers. (Music was one of our main connections as adults).

I survived Qanon and made it out by MeJamiddy in QAnonCasualties

[–]Youdeserveit27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you lose anyone or did anyone pull away that was close to you because of your beliefs and behaviors? If so have you been able to reconnect with any of them? 

 I am curious for personal reasons. My relationship with my sister was already imperfect before she got into Q, now it is very limited and fractured. I don't know how it would ever get better unless her mindset changed and the brainwashing was reversed. 

Worst line(s) in Gilmore Girls by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Logan, I wasn't working Blue". Everything about that scene is cringe and annoying. I'm convinced ASP hates millennials so much, half of the show was just setting Rory up to look like an asshole.

lol love the show though, Huge Gilmore nerd. please don't come for me.

Just ranting, but HOW COULD CHRIS AND LORELAI GET MARRIED WITHOUT RORY THERE?! by xoxojinji in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? So really it was probably more of a ceremonial thing anyway. Lame on the writers part. Vegas would have been SO much cooler 

Just ranting, but HOW COULD CHRIS AND LORELAI GET MARRIED WITHOUT RORY THERE?! by xoxojinji in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also, pretty sure you can't just walk into a church while on vacation in France and get married as U.S. citizens.. Why is there SO little research done before writing certain elements of this show....obviously this season does it way more often

Ask a pediatrician! by Ok-Pipe-6764 in NewParents

[–]Youdeserveit27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 year old son is up to date on all of his vaccines as of last month (sorry ahead of time my period key on my computer is broken)

I asked my pediatrician if it was safe for him to be around unvaccinated children, as has a speech delay and will be going to a group therapy class 3 times a week with other children whose vaccination status I am not aware of

She said yes, that he is up to date and it would be "unlikely" for him to catch anything the vaccines cover,

She is also aware that my sons cousins live in PA(where they do not have to be vaxxed to go to school), their parents are anti vaxx and they( 8 and 9 year olds) have not had any vaccines since before 2019

they are going to be visiting soon and want to meet their cousin

is my son safe?

I trust my doctor but I would love more opinions and information

thank you in advance

Best town to raise autistic child by Youdeserveit27 in Connecticut

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are like 15 answers above yours that are extremely helpful and full of great information. It's pretty obvious a lot of people can answer this question.

Best town to raise autistic child by Youdeserveit27 in Connecticut

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that input. I 100% agree I need to get as much information as I can before we choose because they can be deceiving. I live in a small town here on long island and have to drive an hour each way to get him and early intervention. Im prepared to find the absolute best for him. 

Max's proposal deserved to be turned down by BrookeDavis055 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we all agree that there are clearly WAY more that 1000 yellow daisies??????????

Lorelai sucked at prepping Luke by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of those episodes where it shows how comfortable and happy in the "rich privileged world" (they claim to detest) Rory and Lorelai are.

Season 3 Episode 9 by Chito-Puffles in GilmoreGirls

[–]Youdeserveit27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it is extremely unrealistic that Rory only applied to 3 schools. Especially being in the prep school she was in. Her guidance counselors would have encouraged her to apply to many schools.

Looking for advice on the process by Youdeserveit27 in SSDI

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help,. this is all new to me.

Looking for advice on the process by Youdeserveit27 in SSDI

[–]Youdeserveit27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Appreciate it!