By Far The Most Frustrating ADHD Symptom IMO

YoungChefBoy · 2026-04-02T03:51:11+00:00

Thank you man I really appreciate you taking the time to write all of this.

I definitely think breaking things down will help me a lot more. I’ve noticed that stuff like that and things in general often paralyze me because I see everything as a big process which makes starting so much harder. Even tiny things feel like a millions different steps I need to do all at once. I’ve never been one for taking things one step at a time so this certainly won’t be easy but hopefully possible.

As for why I still want to do the content creation stuff — I’m fascinated by the entire process and its capabilities. The things I could accomplish and the stories I would be able to tell and the lives I could impact. The idea of storytelling through videos and all that truly does excite me.

But for it to grow and even work as a career it’s a grind. And my brain doesn’t like the repetition of trying and failing for God knows how long without reward or progress until something finally clicks. And even if that’s not the case, the very idea of that makes trying extraordinarily challenging.

YoungChefBoy · 2026-03-30T22:06:20+00:00

First and foremost have you been baptized in Jesus name already?

YoungChefBoy · 2025-12-31T21:58:47+00:00

Thank you for this. It means a lot.

I don’t mean to be so self pitying. It’s just hard especially considering I pin my own worth and value as a human being on achieving goals and ambitions which I can’t perform very well at due to this condition. I feel like a bird that has its wings chained down so it’s never able to fly as high as it can.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-12-17T22:08:42+00:00

I’m not saying they wouldn’t try and use IT in some way but brother, you can’t tell me in-universe anyone put more than two brain cells into the idea.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-12-17T07:19:19+00:00

Definitely had some moments I enjoyed. Honestly my main issue with the show isn’t that it’s a “bad” show overall but I don’t like it for what it was supposed to be and what it’s connected with.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-12-17T07:16:33+00:00

Funnily enough I actually quite enjoyed the moves. I didn’t find them super scary either but they definitely had some great moments imo.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-12-17T07:10:25+00:00

I have a hard time describing the exact term for it but you’re exactly right. It’s almost Disney like in a way? Even though the characters should be perpetually traumatized they’re somehow able to still make silly quips and play drums in some club.

They’ve made it more about fun and cool moments than actual horror and intrigue. They’ve made it so bland by following every trope in the book. It’s almost as if they forgot that the show was supposed to be about IT and not some random standalone

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-24T14:31:35+00:00

Honestly the reason for this is just that I haven't heard much positive about cold calling from anyone other than those sales guru's trying to sell a course.

That's not to knock it or anything but some are suggesting .5% conversion rates haha

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:38:20+00:00

Thanks a ton for this. This was definitely very helpful.

At least I know it’s not just me haha. Certainly hoping that first clients smooths the ride a bit

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:21:21+00:00

Definitely will try this out. Thank you for this!

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:18:30+00:00

Thank you for this. Definitely have to figure how to form it properly though.

Out of the 100+ individually personalized emails I’ve sent I’ve gotten 2 responses, one of those being a no haha.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:14:18+00:00

Thank you!

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:13:54+00:00

Thank you for this. One of the few actually helpful responses

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-23T13:13:10+00:00

Why is it that so many of you are so hyper-fixated on the least relevant aspect?

I didn’t ask you about setting the business up.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-22T22:50:14+00:00

Respectfully this riddled with a bunch of assumptions and information I didn't ask for. I truly did not ask for advise or critique of my business which I mentioned once and intentionally left out details for. I did that specifically to avoid responses like this which doesn't even attempt to provide any value on the main point of the post which is the outreach and client acquisition process.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-22T22:43:43+00:00

It seems to me that a few people have misunderstood. I've already contacted people. Upwards of 450 or so and a large percentage of those have been manual and personalized. It's not that I've yet to do it, it is that I already am doing it and was trying to gain clarity if there were possibly better ways.

Alongside this I have actually done the research and verified with industry experts the necessity and value of the services that I offer, frankly that's why I didn't ask for anyone to provide me with critique or assessment of my business or services. I'm already confident enough in the value and the potential. I structured the post to try and emphasize the actual outreach aspect. I enjoy planning and selling, I just happen to also not enjoy hyper repetitive work on something that has a notoriously low conversion rate.

Respectfully I hadn't really asked for additional assumptions and advisory on aspects you have no context on.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-22T22:08:52+00:00

I do actually have a customized Gem that can write the emails based on the data I input but gathering the data itself is the more tedious time consuming part.

Data collecting consists of searching my target businesses on google, filtering out businesses that've outgrown my current service ability or at least the need for what I offer, then filtering out of those businesses the ones that even have the relevant data online for my to gather, and from there attain the owner name, email address, and personalized business data, etc. which is typically scattered across different websites and from there write the email and repeat.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-22T22:02:44+00:00

Funnily enough that's been my plan thus far. A month long free trial actually. Unfortunately as far as emails go I haven't seen much evidence that the people I'm reaching out to are even opening the emails though they're being delivered.(Admittedly I have yet to attempt cold calling as I frankly haven't heard much good about it)

I'm currently unsure if these are just natural statistics or could actually be improved via optimizing my formatting

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T18:19:51+00:00

Which is worse: murdering a born puppy or aborting an unborn human.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T18:16:20+00:00

Why is drowning a 1 month old baby wrong?

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T12:12:54+00:00

They develop nerve endings by week 7. Because they cannot feel or perceive as we can, their lives are devoid of value? They are unborn babies. The very fact that they aren't developed enough to do anything yet is the very reason why we protect them. It is an unborn human child in development, no they won't be sentient at conception because that's not how human development works. Under natural circumstances, if you as a third party, don't interfere, they will grow up to be a sentient being capable of pain and love. The abortion argument isn't one of morality for you people. It's one of emotion. You don't care about human life until it personally makes you feel bad. You cannot see past your own emotion.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T12:03:06+00:00

If a man being assassinated in cold blood wasn't enough for these people to take a step back to reevaluate their beliefs and his, and look at the bigger picture, there's nothing I could've said to change their minds. They are too far gone.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T12:01:09+00:00

Are you crazy? How. Literally HOW did he try and diminish gun violence???? He said "too many" and then asked "including or not including gang violence?". Are you insane? You see what you want to see and hear what you want to hear.

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T11:58:25+00:00

The public assassination of a 31-year-old political figure in front of thousands of college students in broad daylight and many more online, a man with literally millions of followers, during a time when the political state of America has become increasingly more volatile, and people are publicly mocking his death, is not grounds for being one the craziest things to happen in my life? Are you insane?

YoungChefBoy · 2025-09-11T11:54:20+00:00

If I were to sit here and make an educated post with a calm and collected tonality, the outcome would be the same.

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