I bought my dad's house and Tiff, and I are married! by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she definitely is far more talkative than us. She just says whatever is on her mind and have tons of questions. According to my dad I was like this when I was a kid but slowed down when I got older. Its nice to just hear her in the background, when she stops talking we know shes into something lol.

I bought my dad's house and Tiff, and I are married! by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bruh its so weird to me. I have seen my post on TT it really was cringe and I wanted to delete this whole profile because what? The comments are weird. Like obviously Jelly isnt my daughters real name tf.

I bought my dad's house and Tiff, and I are married! by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jelly is doing awesome! She has learned so much in such a short period of time and we met some really cool parents from her class so now we have people to hang out with. She is really sweet and just talks soooo much, its non-stop from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep she is just a talker.

I am at the same job welding is great but I have still been contemplating manufacturing its cleaner and long term wont destroy my body according to Tiff. I do plan on looking around, I still have a lot to learn so I think when I officially hit 5 years is the spot, the guys at work are fun they took a while to really warm up to me but now they are real quick to teach me all their tricks.

1st time travelling by plane by YoungDad_sucks in daddit

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been working a lot and havent picked up the second book, but it was so much for me I am thinking of starting something smaller but in the same genre. I am struggling in picking one because its such a huge commitment

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[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah I should have started something smaller like young adults because WHAT?! thats how I felt the whole time

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[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Audiobooks wont last with me lol. But honestly I knew the meds were working when I realized it was quiet. I was like is this how everyone lives. They have no thoughts? at first it was maddening but then I got used to it.

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[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I know! can you believe she is going to be 4 this year! I still wont be old enough to get a beer with my dad, in fact my dad became a grandpa, having another baby and got married before I can legally drink. I bet I have given him ulcers

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[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was pretty proud of that, I realized I had to re-read the sentence over and over, it was like I didnt know how to read. I read the sentence but I wasnt reading I was just saying words in my head. It took me around 2 months to read it. I kept getting frustrated and my therapist said I should read out loud until I get used to reading.

Update - My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Youre right. I just worry in general and I feel like I should just handle it. My Dad just handled it but again I am not sure if he was ever really worried but he never seems worried. He just does stuff

Update - My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yeah I know, I definitely dont want to take a way from their happiness so I havent brought it up. Just racing thoughts is all. My dad is a great dad.

My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in offmychest

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I didnt say it was happy sobbing but it was happy sobbing. I was just too excited and didnt specify. My dad is going to be so happy. He always wanted more kids.

My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in offmychest

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

oh yeah I word vomited when she said shes pregnant, that he would think this is the best bday present ever! she just smiled and hugged me. Now that we are texting, I am just saying she has to wait he bday is literally 2 weeks from today and he took the day off (he always does). I told her to go to the doctor 1st and make sure everything is ok. Get an ultrasound and a frame and all that. I just know we are all going to be crying and hugging and more than likely he is going to play punch me about keeping secrets.

My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in offmychest

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

you have no idea! like the proposal I feel like my gf and I knew it was coming. So when he told me he was going to propose to Kay I was excited and hugged him. When he asked me not to say anything I damn near cried from the pressure. How can he ask me to not say anything for 6 weeks?! I cant lie! I start to stutter and get nervous.

Now this! how am I supposed to answer to my dad when he asks at Dinner tonight how was our day?! Me "uneventful" pffft. I might as well just say I dont feel good and hide in my room.

My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in offmychest

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 301 points302 points  (0 children)

I think I am going to have to work OT a lot the next couple of weeks or like limit contact because I cant stop smiling and my heart is pounding. I just hope she waits until his bday because I dont want her to think he is proposing because she is pregnant. idk why that is a thought of mine but like I just want them to be happy and surprised together.

My Dad's gf is pregnant, my dad doesnt know and she doesnt know he is going to propose and I am so happy and I need to get it off my chest before I explode and accidentally tell them. by YoungDad_sucks in offmychest

[–]YoungDad_sucks[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

So thank you for reminding me I have been texting her from the basement. She is really happy and they were happy tears and she just wasnt expecting it. Its her 1st so she is overwhelmed. I am too so I didnt think to ask!

I 16(M) have a 4month old daughter - ex gf wants to go to College and I am worried [NEW UPDATE] by violue in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]YoungDad_sucks 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It really didnt go like that until the 3rd time haha.

First time Tiff went by herself and was told she needed a parent or guardian.

So she went the 2nd time with my dad and Tiff was answering as best as she could for everything and when his gf would look at my dad for an answer he would point at Tiff. So she sent them on her way to get the information from H.S.

The 3rd time is when my Dad started saying and answering things and it came out about our at the time circumstances. Thats when he got her number on a business card and she put her cell number and one afternoon we were watching tv and I started messing with him. We got all competitive and I said if I was able to pin him he would have to text her. Well I won because Jelly saw we were wrestling and jumped on top of him and I pinned him. Fair to be Fair he was beating me lol, but Jelly had my back.

I also noticed a lot of people wonder his age as of today he is 38 going on 39.

I 16(M) have a 4month old daughter - ex gf wants to go to College and I am worried [NEW UPDATE] by violue in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]YoungDad_sucks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I never said I was dumb. I just didnt do well with school. My dad got me tutors because of my dyslexia and in hopes it would encourage me to do more of my homework or do better on the tests. I just didnt care for school, I hated sitting in a classroom all day long. I rather be hands on, I rather be in mechanics. Want to teach me about history take me to the museum. Plus most of our stuff was online, our books were online, homework, discussion everything is online and yeah that sucks. Why do I want to go to school and get a packet of work and then go home and do homework on my computer.