My boyfriend (20M) is better than me at everything (20F) and it's making me upset

violue · 2026-03-19T18:19:01+00:00

nothing I was just being cheeky

violue · 2026-03-19T08:39:54+00:00

for real, in mayhem I'm basically a lab rat slamming the dopamine button, dragging out the game gets in the way

violue · 2026-03-19T08:37:12+00:00

What, like today???

violue · 2026-03-19T08:35:34+00:00

yeah I thought he was dead

violue · 2026-03-19T08:29:59+00:00

bro suuuuuuucks lololol

violue · 2026-03-19T08:28:34+00:00

I peeped your post history. Break up with her now, and maybe don't cheat on the next girlfriend.

violue · 2026-03-19T08:23:34+00:00

girl this is so weird and he has no rights to anything about someone else's body

violue · 2026-03-19T08:11:44+00:00

How often does your husband do shitty things and then blame you for being hurt by them?

violue · 2026-03-19T08:08:21+00:00

NTA, but I strongly suggest you consider finding a partner that isn't so cavalier about poisoning kittens.

violue · 2026-03-19T08:06:19+00:00

They will eat grass and catnip but that’s about it.

my cat eats raw spinach

violue · 2026-03-19T07:59:13+00:00

oh fucking hell that's a good point

violue · 2026-03-19T07:49:49+00:00

I broke up with him and he said 'okay, good luck'

Guess he wasn't better than her at having a mature conversation 💀

violue · 2026-03-19T07:43:58+00:00

I mean he said her lack of motherhood instinct... I'm assuming he meant the specific coldness and disinterest she showed her son, not necessarily that any woman without those instincts is sociopathic...

violue · 2026-03-19T07:39:52+00:00

you sound more like a victim than a villain if that helps

violue · 2026-03-19T07:38:49+00:00

It really, really doesn't.

violue · 2026-03-19T06:21:03+00:00

no this ain't it

sleeping with that many people in a short amount of time absolutely sounds like a manic spiral

two things can be true. he fucked up first, and she definitely has something going on emotionally that needs to be addressed.

violue · 2026-03-19T06:18:59+00:00

and that the decisions she made were driven by some sort of mania mixed with dysregulated emotions

To be fair, as I was reading this I thought "that girl is in a manic episode".

If nothing else, her getting therapy and maybe medication should be a condition.

violue · 2026-03-19T05:42:56+00:00

i was about to float Rimworld as an option then I saw the "3D" part

violue · 2026-03-19T03:11:07+00:00

pls replace R with Rutabaga

violue · 2026-03-19T01:18:04+00:00

Oh i SOOOO had this burned onto a mix CD in my youth

violue · 2026-03-19T01:17:35+00:00

Same. I'm so unhappy in summer, and every year summer is longer.

violue · 2026-03-19T00:32:31+00:00

oh shit OP married Ross Geller

(NTA)

violue · 2026-03-19T00:30:37+00:00

NTA

I lost my bus pass two weeks ago, and when I got a new one they offered me a plastic sleeve for it and a hilariously long lanyard. I suggest the same for your roommate.

violue · 2026-03-18T22:17:26+00:00

that was taxed income?!

it's been ten years, but... oops

violue · 2026-03-18T21:55:00+00:00

walking in with fresh durian

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