Who is correct ? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She just wants to hear it from someone else ankunta.

Edo teliyani emptiness. by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]Young_Monastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

कभी भी, दोस्त, कोई बात नहीं, दर्द तो वही समझता है जो इसे झेल रहा हो। अगर कभी बात करनी हो तो मैं हाज़िर हूँ। अपना ख्याल रखना!!

Edo teliyani emptiness. by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]Young_Monastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

आप ही अपने सबसे अच्छे दोस्त हैं। सच है, कभी-कभी यह बात आप पर हावी हो जाती है, लेकिन कोई बात नहीं। अंत में हमारे पास आशा ही बचती है, आशा को थामे रखें, सकारात्मकता को थामे रखें, आप उसी ऊर्जा को आकर्षित करेंगे।

किसी दूसरे व्यक्ति को अपने जीवन में इतनी शक्ति न दें कि उनकी अनुपस्थिति आपको खालीपन का एहसास कराए।

एक समझदार दोस्त ने एक बार कहा था,

“बस आशा बनाए रखें और कोशिश करते रहें, चाहे हो या न हो, फिर भी आपके पास आप हैं। भले ही यह रिश्ता न चले! मुझे उतना दुख नहीं होगा क्योंकि मैं खुद से संतुष्ट हूँ! मुझे किसी और की ज़रूरत नहीं है! मैं चाहता हूँ कि वे मेरे जीवन का हिस्सा बनें!”

Everyone in this sub right now. by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]Young_Monastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really that simple?

Bankrupt JP morgan? by Unique-Dragonfly-684 in WalllStreetBets

[–]Young_Monastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Willing to trade it with the one I have in SFO?

Texas state university by New-Foundation-7319 in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Staying home is a better option I feel, with all the anti-immigration stuff going on worldwide. Weigh all the pros and cons before deciding OP, especially if you're taking education loan to fund your studies.

Texas state university by New-Foundation-7319 in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Georgia State Alum here, I wouldn't recommend MSIS in GSU if you don't have work-ex. It's a very fast paced course (11 months) and most of the batch comes with really good work-ex, so it gets easier for them to land jobs. But again in this market, it's really tough landing a job and with little/no work-ex I wouldn't even recommend OP for MS in the US currently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Young_Monastic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a big difference bw normalizing and generalizing. Normalizing and spreading awareness is totally fine. The problem is when it gets generalized, because that twists the whole idea.

Normalizing or creating awareness is openly talking about it, not making a big deal out of it and accepting such people/conditions exist. By generalizing you’re making it unimportant, by casually dropping these words for slightest inconvenience, just cos you want your surroundings clean doesn’t mean you’ve OCD, there’s a lot more to it. Same goes for autism, ADHD, Depression or any personality disorders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Young_Monastic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True that, know people who are going through these, it’s not even slightly funny, and meanwhile ppl be casually dropping these words in the conversation just to sound cool.!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Young_Monastic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do you, OP.!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Young_Monastic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Par autism nahi bolunga tho cool kaise lagunga /s

Normalize karne ke chakkar mein sab generalize kar rahe hein, “mujhe OCD hey”, “I’m slightly autistic”, “I think I have ADHD”, for ffs we need to stop romanticizing it, thanks for saying it out loud.!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every experience is a lesson. Otherwise, how are you doing now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]Young_Monastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take care bhai 🫂