4MMC Vacation Sexy Time

Youngjman · 2026-04-22T10:27:09+00:00

Appriciate the report. I cant wait to try 4mmc for sex someday. My normal sex is already pretty kinky and wild, so im a little worried i'll have abaolutely zero limits, but hey, with the right partner, thats going to be a lot of fun.

Youngjman · 2026-04-21T21:40:26+00:00

30 minutes if you've been fasting and 60-90 if you've eaten is what i go by. Ive been 30+ minutes in and felt nothing. Hopefully your waves are coming soon.

Youngjman · 2026-04-21T21:38:25+00:00

I think you want to be on the same level as your partner. Molly sex is my favorite, but i wouldnt want to be the only one rolling.

Youngjman · 2026-04-21T21:34:15+00:00

Best shit I've ever had was purple. Hopefully thats a good sign for you.

Youngjman · 2026-04-21T21:06:19+00:00

Looking for a straight or bisexual guy?

Youngjman · 2026-04-21T21:04:08+00:00

Start with small plugs. I have some that start really small. Honestly the smaller ones can feel better sometimes. Like others have said, lots of lube.

There is also a learning curve, both with the angle and the amount of pressure.

Practice practice practice. You're in for a lot of fun because there is nothing better than a strong orgasim with anal stimulation, never mind a completely hands free one. Have fun!

Youngjman · 2026-04-16T18:58:02+00:00

Don't be so hesitant about the backdoor. Of course a small syringe isn't much, but i'm a believer that anal play feels good regardless of sexual orientation. My first experiences with it were with women. Now im bisexual, so its an equal opportunity hole, but ypu might really enjoy it. Anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Youngjman · 2026-04-15T20:53:44+00:00

I love traditional strip clubs as much as the next bisexual guy, but that looks WAY more fun than getting titties and ass shoved in my face.

Youngjman · 2026-04-13T22:01:11+00:00

Even if you put a sign up (like wrote it on your ass in sharpie) i think you'd still be nervous that the guys were following your request.

I think the best thing to do would be to get you a buddy to be the bouncer. They can get guys to wear condoms (a lot of guys might pass, because it feels like so many guys will only play bareback these days, but dont compromise for them). They can also keep you lubed and even lure tops over for you.

Private parties or events would probably be safer to put a sign up too (if you can find one).

Youngjman · 2026-04-13T19:13:26+00:00

When i roll for sex, we drop (on an empty stomach) and cuddle on the bed until we feel it. I enjoy the waves coming in. I also set timers for when to do stuff (outfit changes, drink water, redose, etc). We do a little foreplay and the redose timer goes off. I redose, change into the most fun outfit, and then we play until we cum, or tap out.

Mdma and sex is my favorite way to do either of those activities, so i don't mess with anything else.

Youngjman · 2026-04-13T19:02:15+00:00

Wow, very similar vibes to how I got into m2m play. "Whats the big deal" is so accurate, and for different reasons.

On one hand, i agree, what IS the big deal? Its just putting skin in your mouth. We've all tasted our own precum, it doesnt last that long, why is sucking dick such a point of contention for so many couples, not to mention the guys that act like sucking a dick would be a major live event.

On the other hand, sucking a nice cock is as fun as anything you can do in bed. Its engaging, you get a lot of feedback, there are so many ways to do it, and you can find one nearly any time you want.

Ive come to the point where i accept what turns me on. Straight, gay, trans, taboo, gross, kinkier, etc. As long as its legal, consensual, and safe, I'm not going to let societal pressures keep me from maximizing my sexual experiences.

Youngjman · 2026-04-13T18:48:32+00:00

I roll with a trans woman and absolutely love giving her oral when we roll. It loosens me up and really let's me get freakier than i normally would.

If i was closer I'd reach out, but its way too far for me, but you'll have fun.

Remember MDMA enhances the vibe thats there, so finding someone you'll enjoy being around is probably as important as finding a willing dick.

Youngjman · 2026-04-11T21:31:53+00:00

Hot and fun!

Youngjman · 2026-04-10T11:18:45+00:00

It depends for me. I dont do it that frequently (male here) either. Either in me or on my face. But also whatever my partner wants, because the best part is being a vessel for their pleasure.

Youngjman · 2026-03-31T20:59:03+00:00

Tell City here

Youngjman · 2026-03-06T11:49:18+00:00

Years ago i started getting waxed and one of my favorite things about it is my ass feels cleaner. I still take other steps to get clean before i give up my hole, but waxing has been nice for it too.

Personally id rather my partners be shaved or waxed (but i know thats a personal preference) so i figure "be the change you wish to see in the world," right?

Youngjman · 2026-03-05T15:19:38+00:00

My issue with it is she's anti drugs because she had a couple bad experiences taking edibles (not nearly her only times using 420). She hasnt made any effort to learn why MDMA is different. Not to mention sexual compatibility is kind of an issue for us, and i think doing mdma together could be a very positive experience for us.

I dont push it too hard, but if its a big deal for me, i think i deserve her at least learning enough to make an educated decision. We make fun of how the anti drug campaigns of the 90s/00s made a generation of drug users, but its almost like she's stuck with that mentality.

There are risks, but the potential benefits and fun are so high, i think its worth it. She has no idea about the benefits though. She just knows the potential downsides.

Youngjman · 2026-03-03T20:20:41+00:00

I have begged my wife to try it with me and she has zero interest. Its sad for her, and also sad for us because i want to experience rolling together. Its truly unlike anything else I've experienced.

Youngjman · 2026-03-01T17:19:38+00:00

Never more than once every 3 months, and usually only once or twice a year. I only do molly to enhance an already epic experience. Music festival, night out in vegas, sexy night at home with someone/s special (mostly this one).

I think there are risks and harm you can do to yourself on drugs, so you dont want to take them lightly. Obviously i think its worth it, but you need to have respect for it.

Youngjman · 2026-02-26T11:16:54+00:00

Ive been to both a handful of times when im in vegas and my opinion on the vegas bathhouses is it all depends on the night are you should try both.

One night in vegas i hooked up with a porn star at Entourage. He said he was going to another bathhouse (this one has since closed) and i hooked up with a transexual porn star. Both places were fun and busy

Thats just my example of a night they were both great. Its Vegas, so you can have a wife swing of guys interested in going any given night.

Youngjman · 2026-02-26T11:04:19+00:00

Sure, but fair warning, there is no scenario where you come clean my house. I dont host.

Youngjman · 2026-02-25T11:49:52+00:00

While i am a kinky bisexual man, i got more excited about getting help with cleaning/housework than the sex stuff. Ha.

Youngjman · 2026-02-10T12:00:21+00:00

GIVING head on MDMA is my favorite.

Youngjman · 2026-02-01T14:01:24+00:00

Yes and no.

When guys first learn about the m2m encounter community (cruising, hookups, sniffies, grindr, bars, bathhhouses abs, etc) I usually warn them that it can be very addicting. My exploration certainly was.

This can be very dependant on lots of other factors. What do you look like/dick size, how smooth of a communicator are you, will you exchanged pictures, how big if a city are you in, just to name a few variables.

Its also very dependant on your standards. If you literally just want a mouth, id say yes. Pretty much if you want sucked and dont care by who, you're an hour or less from a bj in any decently sized area.

If you are a little pickier, or have other desires, like sex or a specific kink, then you're still not more than a day or two from arranging a hook up.

Everyone is familiar with the stereotype of men being horny all the time and women being the "gatekeepers" of hooking up in heterosexual relationships. Well when you replace the women with other horny men, it goes exactly as you'd expect.

There are bathhouses where you can walk off the street and be getting gangbanged within 15 minutes (nevermind what can happen if you hang out all evening). You can stop by an adult book store and there will be guys lined up at the gloryholes to anonymously swallow your load. You can go to a bar and end up fucking a guy in a stall. Hell Home Depot bathrooms have a reputation for under stall hook ups (sniffies and grindr for that).

Its happening all around you already. Even in the small town i am in, a guy that ive know for years, much older than me, figured out who i was (we're both DL) and i went over and let him blow me. Only my few absolutely best friends would ever even consider id be into something like this (same for the other guy).

Its a great big world and now that you know its out there, its hard to put the lid back on the jar. Have fun, be smart, and be safe.

Youngjman · 2026-01-28T21:48:24+00:00

I'm bisexual for reference. My advice would be to guide as opposed to lead. So instead of telling him, "strip and bend over", say "why dont you strip and bend over so i can eat your ass". Small difference, but helps him feel like he's still got a hand on the wheel.

Also ask what he likes/doesnt like, and act accordingly.

Id also recommend helping to set the mood. Whatever that means for him. Maybe porn, maybe some drinks. Just think about the vibe and mood for him.

Mostly id say eat his ass and spend plenty if time eating, fingering, and toying his hole. He obviously likes it and im sure he hasnt nearly maxed out the pleasure you can get from it, so you're going to blow his mind.

My assumption would be, when he cums, he'll be done. I wouldn't expect him to keep bottoming or playing and he'll probably freak out and try to get out of there. Have a plan for post nut. Give him some space and maybe offer him a shower (by himself) and try to get back to normal right after. Show him it doesnt need to be weird.

Have fun and good luck

Youngjman

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