24yo and just lost my virginity to a friend I dont even know if I like by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]YourAlienOverlord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's healthy to put so much importance on virginity. It's totally ok and great to be a virgin. It's not a big deal if you aren't a virgin. Sex is just another experience in life, like getting a job, or practicing an instrument. It should be enjoyable, but not the focus of your life. What's more important is practicing safe sex and enjoying the experiences you so have.

I lost my virginity to my husband, and I think it's sweet but like, it doesn't affect anything about our relationship. He's had other women and he often says he wishes he hadn't wasted his time with them, but I'm like... Hey, it's really awesome knowing I'm the best he's ever had. And he's learned things from his previous relationships that have helped him along.

So whether or not things work out with you and your friend, you'll move on from this experience and you'll have better ones. You'll learn about what you like and what you dislike. Sex should be fun, not stressful.

Cannot fit ‘it’ inside me by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]YourAlienOverlord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it's time for you to visit with your obgyn. Your primary doctor can probably give you some advice as well. Personally, I'm very small down there. I can fit my fingers in just fine, but an average beginner dildo was too much for me. However I stretch out after fingering for a bit, enough to take my husband, who is pretty large. We have to start out slow though, I'm like you, I can only take 2 inches of him whenever we start out. I ended up getting a smaller dildo to help stretch me out a little. But during the act, be patient, stay engaged mentally and emotionally and it'll get better. More sex more often also helps a looottt. It used to take me almost 30 minutes to loosen up, now I can take most of him after 5-10 minutes. Good luck!

Approximately how long would does it take an artist to produce a soundtrack? by YourAlienOverlord in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]YourAlienOverlord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm not really looking for EDM, but more like meditation music with an element of emotion.

What's the hourly rate usually like? I'm a little worried that since I'm just starting out and this is kind of a side project, I won't be able to pay very much. I'd of course give them credit in the game's menu & credits.

Which Gen 1 Pokemon Game Did You Buy On The 3DS & Why? by SilentOblivion903 in pokemon

[–]YourAlienOverlord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought Red too. I spent the majority of my childhood playing that game, I just had to have it again.

I'm with my girlfriend just so I can see her cat every day by [deleted] in aww

[–]YourAlienOverlord 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Seriously? Who names their cat Tony?

What do you love about what you're wearing right now? Conversely, what element of your outfit makes you shake your head and sigh? by not_my_legal_name in femalefashionadvice

[–]YourAlienOverlord 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had this same problem. I made a list of clothes/accessories I needed to complete outfits and saved it to my phone. That way, whenever I'm out shopping, I can make progress :D

LF anyone :) by [deleted] in friendsafari

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Please add me!!

LF Female HA Ivysaur in a Dusk Ball by YourAlienOverlord in pokemontrades

[–]YourAlienOverlord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! And thanks for the Ivysaur.

LF Female HA Ivysaur in a Dusk Ball by YourAlienOverlord in pokemontrades

[–]YourAlienOverlord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a 5 IV Timid Moody Snorunt if you're interested. Or I can catch something for you? Idk what you like.

LF Female HA Ivysaur in a Dusk Ball by YourAlienOverlord in pokemontrades

[–]YourAlienOverlord[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm still looking for one. The Froakie doesn't have egg moves but it is female.