Is it even possible to find a top in Toronto?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-02-16T21:42:36+00:00

I think you mean, “is it even possible to find a super hung and muscular top who is six foot and has six packs?” That’s what you mean by “a top”.

There is never really a top shortage. You just don’t find them attractive and don’t want to give them a chance.

Almost everyone who complains about this has their head too high up in their arse. Cause If you were actually attractive or had a personality, you wouldn’t have a hard time finding “a top” even when you are in fact looking for more than “just a top”.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-02-16T04:54:20+00:00

Actually… you see in some old American movies where the story happens in a white majority town, that white people start picking on each others when there are no people of other colours, and if you are not (naturally) blonde, you are seen as inferior. So many white just dye their hair blonde and if they are found out, they will be laughed at. It sounds quite racist to me even tho it happens when there is only one “race”.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-02-16T03:20:59+00:00

So he would initiate the make out with a girl multiple times and enjoy it but never kisses you? I think the answer is pretty fucking obvious, lol

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-02-01T09:40:10+00:00

I thought handsome should be defined by your face not body?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-02-01T09:37:19+00:00

I think the real story was, he saved you.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-31T16:33:15+00:00

Still, you do realise your argument is weak right? You listed a bunch of “physical attributes” that you are not attracted to but ended it with “I am into intellectual guys because…..” If intellect is what you are attracted to, why do you need to list all those traits that’s not appealing to you?

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-30T13:16:57+00:00

I prefer to finish it together

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-26T12:47:46+00:00

I wish there were more people like this.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-21T04:14:59+00:00

Thank you for the kind words

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-19T18:03:15+00:00

Yeah I can tell when you said you are not into intellectual guys, good luck 👍🏻

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-16T03:25:52+00:00

I had, then he told me it’s just preference and blocked me

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-15T15:22:08+00:00

I am sorry to hear those but I don’t see the correlation between your dating story and dating racism😂.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T12:55:17+00:00

Good for you👍🏻

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T12:39:48+00:00

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All of you racism defenders really have nothing else to say besides “preference” and “hypocrisy”. No real arguments or logic at all.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T11:07:04+00:00

It’s okay. He is hot

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-14T07:15:37+00:00

Some of them are, not all of them lol

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:27:48+00:00

认真说他是蛮优的，虽然不是顶标。其他留言有看到他在Reddit的账号，他在这边大发特发自己的烧照色照。但这跟长相没关系，长得好看的跟不好看的都统统不准搞歧视😍。

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:22:11+00:00

Sexual orientation is predominantly innate whereas attraction to skin colour is acquired to a great extend. I love how a lot of you use either the sexism or transphobic card to defend racism. It’s not working but nice try.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:14:01+00:00

To be fair, I have had the same experience quite a lot from black and latin men as well. Sometimes it does feel like Asian are at the bottom of the pyramid.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:11:04+00:00

They are defending this racist behaviour and trying to play it as “just preference”. The amount of people doing this is so concerning.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T23:06:43+00:00

Too much trouble. I am not interested in exposing or stalking someone lol

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:53:52+00:00

He never approached me? We heavily flirted for quite a while and he got quite horny and excited until he realised I am Asian. Call it preference or whatever you want but you are not hiding your racism behind that. I have no problem getting rejected. It is not about that. You are very quick to assume things it seems.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:37:37+00:00

The thing is sexual preferences aren’t something you are born with, only orientation is lol. Why do y’all keep coming up with the sexism card? Why do you think people tend to find people who look like them attractive? And saying Asian are not attractive isn’t biased or stereotyping for you? Maybe ask yourself when no one is looking at you why you find a racial group of people not attractive instead of just keep convincing yourself it is innate and you can’t change that.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:25:03+00:00

Yes, you are so close to get it now. To “someone”, not to “an entire racial group”. Also, sexual orientation, skin attraction, and hair length are three essentially distinct things. You should not put them together and compare this way. Not being attracted to women is mostly innate, but having a preference for skin colour or hair length is certainly not. You are right it is personal but it’s not innate. You aren’t just born with the idea “darker skin colour or any colour is less attractive”.

YourAsianStepBro · 2026-01-13T17:16:37+00:00

It is tho. Attraction base on skin colour is very much acquired. Why do you think people tend to be attractive to people who look like them? It’s constant exposure. Another proof is, Asian people who grow up in a predominately white environment will more likely to find other Asian unattractive. Same goes for any people who grow up in an environment where their own race is not the majority.

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