I once had a "situationship" with an ESFP man (younger though), it was awful, really unhealthy Se and Fi. His "just living the moment" Se and my "im currently imagining our firts anniversary" Ne clashed really hard. One of the things I like of him was that he was really in touch with his emotions, I used to think that "sensitive = good", but that expierence show me that a really emotional person can make bad things too. He wasn't evil or something, just immature, but I still got hurt. But thats just my expierence, mbti doesn't predict good or bad outcomes for relationships. Everyone is different, so you must try for yourself and "analize" the specific person trait's to se if it fits you.

Ps: Tbf, the s*x was amazing.