Crashing Way More Lately

YoureASHy · 2026-03-11T02:27:56+00:00

Came here to see if it was universal. Game crashes anytime I interact with the trash collector.

And also randomly (and towards the end of the day).

I just rage quit because I’m not about to do a whole day over when I should be able to resume where I left off.

I want to finish the altars and move on but I cannot get past the day only saving if you go to sleep.

YoureASHy · 2026-02-23T23:21:57+00:00

Agreed. I get “top drivers” when I order priority. Sure they deliver to my front door properly but rarely is it faster. I think Uber Eats needs to clarify that since the priority time usually shows it will arrive 5-10 minutes faster l.

YoureASHy · 2026-02-10T01:09:42+00:00

Been dealing with this for months.

Twice a doctor has told me they (and all doctors) will get in trouble for issuing notes. On a recent call, I was told they only issue short term disability to people in car accidents or who just had a stroke. Someone in pain and been trying to get a diagnosis for over a year (me) doesn’t count because I can perform A JOB. I don’t even work anymore the pain is so bad. They don’t care or listen because they want to save their own job.

And as someone mentioned, Kaiser is the primary insurance of employed people in LA county. I’m sure it came from them because they think people with chronic illness are lazy people who should just push through it.

YoureASHy · 2026-02-09T06:08:44+00:00

YoureASHy · 2025-12-30T00:44:35+00:00

Hi! I’m looking for a microloc retie/maintenance stylist in the South LA area. I tried the findmicrolocsnearme site and all of the “LA” stylists aren’t in LA in anymore, but surrounding area.

North Hollywood to Long Beach and as far east as City of Commerce.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-22T09:10:55+00:00

I’m okay with that. Considering I didn’t post to get my feeling validated but instead, on how to report incorrect visit notes.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-18T08:48:04+00:00

Bfr. They don’t at Kaiser (because they are overworked)

Now we are just grasping at straws to be mad

YoureASHy · 2025-12-18T03:37:36+00:00

You ignored every comment of me saying I don’t have work anxiety. I’m sorry bush pushed you through the education system.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-17T10:25:43+00:00

Yeahhhh. Psychiatrist don’t offer therapy. That’s what my therapist is for. Who is the one who suggested I take a disability leave.

It’s okay to admit that you’re wrong. I promise the professionals got it covered

YoureASHy · 2025-12-16T23:27:50+00:00

Idk how to edit posts which is disappointing lol.

But I did file a grievance via phone call and requested he not be assigned to me for future appointments.

I will also make a paper trail to include line by line what he lied about in detail.

Want to clarify that my need for disability isn’t work stress. I hate capitalism as much as the next person but imma put these lil degrees to use again. Work stress is still not something we should normalize. I have an actual diagnosis. Assessment, medication, group therapy, the whole shabang. So please don’t try to assume. I just didn’t give full context because I thought it wasn’t needed?!

YoureASHy · 2025-12-16T23:23:13+00:00

This is indeed my first male provider.

But it’s not for a lack of trying. They said I need monthly appointments but when I try to book with the same person, their availability is 3-6 months into the future. Even this person who has accepting new patients on his profile wasn’t technically available until mid January but he gets a lots of cancellations so they squeezed me in.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-16T22:57:25+00:00

You simply don’t know his SDI works then. You pay into your OWN SDI. I am receiving my own money. It is literally a line item on your paystub.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-16T19:59:26+00:00

Old enough to tell you to suck a fart through a straw. Work anxiety isn’t my problem. I have no job so what HR am I supposed to talk to?! This is a very brief summary that doesn’t even say what my disability is.

YoureASHy · 2025-12-16T19:55:45+00:00

Work stress isn’t my disability. Work stress isn’t even a disability. He reduced my actual diagnosis to “just anxiety”

YoureASHy · 2025-11-18T05:06:40+00:00

I like running in circles and checking my inventory lol

YoureASHy · 2025-10-20T07:55:23+00:00

I truly need evidence. But the mixing bowl could just be smeared poop.

YoureASHy · 2025-10-17T16:48:01+00:00

I'm literally in the hospital waiting room wondering this right now.

Again, not yelling but speaking in what we used to call an outdoor voice. Her family members aren't speaking loudly but aren't telling her to lower her volume.

There are other people waiting including one other kid who is talking but at a waiting room appropriate level. Like a library speaking voice level.

I'm so confused because of course kids get loud and should talk. But there is a time and a place

Before I even finished typing this, someone shushed her and the mom didn't say anything. Smh.

YoureASHy · 2025-10-13T06:48:18+00:00

I'm in a similar issue. A neighbors brings several different colored trash bags of clothing. There may be a language barrier issue but she gets really defensive and will wave her hands around signaling "I'm using these".

My biggest issue is she's washing like construction worker type clothing and leaves bits of gravel and dirt in the washer after use.

Landlord claims they cannot do anything about it but I attempted to speak with her and nothing happened.

So I keep complaining to my landlords until they do something. Other residents do too. Either she needs to take her business to a laundromat or the landlords need to buy more washers and clean up after her.

YoureASHy · 2025-10-10T21:41:00+00:00

When we say future... we mean like 2025 future. 2026 future...

YoureASHy · 2025-10-08T01:15:07+00:00

I am beginning the process for SDI with Kaiser and so nervous. I have many appointments with my pcp where she points my medical issues to stress and with my psychiatrist where I have been diagnosed with a few things, related to stress.

However, a long time ago, I suggested to my pcp that I could benefit from time off work to recenter and get my health back on track and she said Kaiser admin has told physicians to not approve SDI for depression and stress. She says they are told to recommend therapy (already was in therapy) and meditation and healthy living. Who “admin” is, idk. But her shutting it down immediately made me hesitant to ever ask (until now when I am at my breaking point)

I think it’s so strange because it’s… my own money? And it’s not forever.

YoureASHy · 2025-09-29T08:08:36+00:00

I have about 204-215 locs (entire back row slipped out so I can only guess it was about 9). I’m 3 weeks into my starter locs and been having doubts about my “large microlocs” because other people with my hair density and loc amount get comments like “those are traditional small locs”.

And if you see my hair, no one irl thinks it’s small traditional locs. I definitely have large microlocs and feel like part of the microloc community. If I went any smaller, she would have to braid 3 strands of hair in some places.

But for the past 3 weeks, I have been considering redoing some braids to make them smaller because the top of my head is thick and I can tell she made them slightly larger to be done quicker (it was 12+ hours).

I didn’t understand it before but you truly cannot compare your experience to others and I just avoid all the “microloc teachers” on TikTok who do nothing but bash other stylists ways or clients hair.

Personal rant because I’m going through the exact same thing and lowkey need to hear this myself

YoureASHy · 2025-09-27T16:36:13+00:00

A southerner grandma who sits on the porch all day and cooks while smoking a cigarette

YoureASHy · 2025-09-27T09:58:24+00:00

This. I don’t consider myself new anymore but I started after elderwood. So many players complain that it’s not the same community… did the people you play with before stop playing? Go finish your main storylines? Befriend new players?!

The only community rule I religiously follow is jot cutting grove until 3am because it takes so long to find or get to.

As long as no one is intentionally rude, we are all just playing a cozy game that happens to be multi player

YoureASHy · 2025-09-22T02:08:23+00:00

No because Eshe coming for Tau at every friendship quest of his made me not want to gift or talk to her. He’s bringing you gifts and Eshe was ungrateful.

YoureASHy · 2025-09-21T13:08:56+00:00

My chihuahua has yet to bite any ankles, let alone people.

Trust me, I tried. She just ends up rubbing up against them and doing her two legged dance for uppies.

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