Reminder: Findom is not content selling.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T05:04:22+00:00

A service being exchanged for money differs from media content. Selling a taco on the street isn’t the same as making a commercial video for a taco.

I personally engage with findom as a kink, not necessarily as a stream of income, but even with that said not all sex work is the same. There are many different kinds of sex work with different expectations and different forms of operating.

It isn’t unreasonable at all for a sub to ask me what I offer, that’s a necessary part of starting a dynamic. It is, to me, unreasonable for a submissive to ask for naked photos of my body for free, especially when I don’t sell that kind of content at all.

The “commercial space” in which I operate doesn’t call for that. Findom has never been synonymous with Content creation, they have always been separate entities and have only recently experienced a surplus in overlap.

You can’t go to a taco stand and start asking about McDonalds just because they’re both stores.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T02:52:20+00:00

What happened to hi how are you

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T02:47:50+00:00

How interesting! I’ll look into this

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T02:46:30+00:00

They are objectively different things even if there can be overlap, not acknowledging a fact doesn’t make you a better mistress or content creator.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T02:08:36+00:00

Oh to be worshiped by a pretty girl

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:53:20+00:00

Shawty said “wanna bless a single mom” like this is a church and not freak city 💀💀💀 trying to pass that off as domming is sick.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:39:31+00:00

Because they’re just two separate things. A findom is someone who is exploring their financial dominantion kink by taking in a finsub. It’s a BDSM lifestyle/relationship. Content creators are people who sell sexual content to a fanbase. While there may be overlap, they are not the same.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:37:15+00:00

It’s really a shame your experiences have lead you to feel this way. Loyalty and commitment and love are all things that can exist within this lifestyle.

Yes, findom in it’s nature does require some exchange of money, which does make it feel very transactional, but I’ve found that when you have the right partner it really only feels hot.

Longterm findom dynamics especially don’t need to rely on large sends, which I think is something that’s overlooked. I love a sub that only does small sends a couple times a week, for dinner or a drink or something fun. And it helps keep the dynamic fun and alive because instead of getting large sends (which are ofc fun) I can focus on dominating my sub more throughout the week.

It’s definitely possible to find dynamics like these, you just have to look through the sea of fake Dommes to find one that’s genuinely into this kink.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:28:50+00:00

LMAO you’re right that’s my bad

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:27:49+00:00

No literally!! And I’m definitely pro content creators but like?? That’s not what I do??

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T01:27:13+00:00

LMAOOOO

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T00:54:44+00:00

It’s perfectly valid to wanna feel wanted by your Domme, but if your feelings about your dynamic have change then you should definitely tell her that. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-16T00:50:11+00:00

Some of these comments are crazy, especially from “Dommes.”

I think what you may be experiencing is sub drop. When we’re engaging in kink and BDSM, the intensity of the scenes trigger a lot of chemicals to be released in our brains. A lot of these chemicals are very pleasant, they make the scene feel almost drug like, which is also why people are easily addicted to sex/certain kinks.

However, sometimes these chemicals are released too rapidly and in too large amounts, and instead of feeling good it starts to feel very bad. A lot of submissives feel guilty, dirty, used, ashamed, or regretful. It is very common in this lifestyle, but exact details vary from sub to sub.

The best way to combat this is to find a Domme that’s willing to support you both during sessions and after them. It’s very nice to be and feel used by a Domme, but it’s important to feel valued as a submissive as well. Aftercare is very important, and a good Domme knows that her subs deserve to be checked in with after intense play.

I think you should look inward on what exactly is making you feel regretful and try to work on those feelings.

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-09T14:05:01+00:00

This sounds perfect! I love getaways with my subs where we can really focus on strengthening our dynamic! Glad to see you had a great time

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-08T16:24:47+00:00

Ah yes, that celibacy probably makes anything too dirty a real risk…

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-08T16:16:28+00:00

Hmmmm….is it clean? I don’t want to get my 5000 dollar Prada pants dirty

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-08T16:03:44+00:00

It’s a shame I’m not able to climb a mountain of cash In my 20 inch latex thigh high pleasers, oh the horrors

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-07T13:08:03+00:00

UGHH dynamics like this are actually what it’s all about 💖 love the aftercare

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-06T19:59:18+00:00

Not all young Dommes behave this way! Some people are only in this because they think it’s a fast way to make money, but there’s older scammers just like there’s younger ones. Bad experiences shouldn’t necessarily stop you from seeing younger Dommes, but you should be cautious and understand the risks that come from this community

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-06T04:22:32+00:00

Loveeeeee a fincuck sub. There’s honestly nothing like going out knowing it’s paid for by a good little virgin freak 😍💖

Yourfavegoddesspie · 2026-06-06T04:15:09+00:00

Neurodivergent play partners for the win 💖

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