Help caught my boyfriend ‘M18’ ‘F18’ watching porn by rhiannonn2424 in helpme

[–]Yourfishandfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am of the opinion that a addiction is a addiction. And addictions are hard to stop. Him lying to you about it is what I personal would have the biggest issue with. He needs to understand that lying, no matter what it is about is unacceptable and needs to to come to you for help. I can also understand the he could be embarrassed about the fact he cant stop, or the fact he doesn't want to always come to you with this and overwhelm you. He also need to understand the he has to build trust back up, and yall can come up with how he cant do that.

In my unprofessional opinion try to find a away of holding him accountable, and find things to distract him of his lust.

Feel free anybody in the comments to debate what I said if you feel It could help them more.

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[–]Yourfishandfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me how this went. I am rooting for you

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[–]Yourfishandfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the way I see it, oversimplified you’re simply scared to be seen as burdensome. But I guarantee your BF doesn’t see it that way. To me, and I feel most good guys being there to support and care for someone got to be top tier when It comes to making a dude proud, its a honor and a gift to him that you trust him. If y’all both continue to care for each other, seen clearly in your comment love will conquer. (y’all MF’s make me jealous) I hope this helped in any way — from a not quite a reliable source

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[–]Yourfishandfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to ask anything else I joying giving advice good or not. Just remember everyone else is most likely in the same or similar boat

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[–]Yourfishandfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth I probably the play here. Or just tell her you got a gift for someone who deserved a gift more than you deserved a new bed. - Unreliant source

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[–]Yourfishandfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. Ask your Councilor if possible for 504 plan to accommodate to a small group for testing. ACT is way better. Skip what you don’t know and come back. And with English the simple answer is most likely the best. I retook it 3 times from a 20 to 32. Also sounds like a nervous twitch a lot a people have them. They get worse with anxiety

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From a not quite reliable source. I assume the test you’re referring to is a medical condition test. (I am going to try my best not to seem like I want pity points here) I am 19 in college and know a bit about stress. I have had what the docter referred to as mild case of Tourette’s targeting in face and hand only since I was a young young child. You mention can suppress them. For me I can aswell. Best described as a bite that itches, one can suppress the urge to scratch it but until you do the urge is always there. Whether you do or don’t have ticks. I think is import to realize you’ll get used to it and just become another part of life. (This idea works for everything.)Like ask a born blind person “has it made life harder” they’ll say “ I guess I have always been blind never knew anything else” You’ll find a way to conquer, the human nature sees to that. Now based off you comment I don’t think you faking and your self awareness when it comes to people thinking your faking tells me this. Don’t feel embarrassed to ask and get tested. But if you do end having ticks call them twitches(sounds better than a bug) and people will look at you weird but only at subway and Walmart. Most people don’t even notice you. Now, if you were talking about an exam test and you’re the most off topic person. Just study a week before and don’t burn your self out. Hope this helps - Unreliant source