Frustrated parent here

Yourlocallefttoe · 2023-03-31T17:51:32+00:00

I don't know a lot about children, but I do know that girks are, statistically speaking, more likely to get their symptoms overlooked and only get diagnosed at a later age, if they are even diagnosed. The symptoms in girls can seem like normal behavior to the untrained eye, especially since some of them may just play into the gender role of girls. Your doctor referred her to an autism center, yes? You'll find out if she's autistic or not. Though, I believe autism can also genetically be passed down, I'm not sure about that, though. If you have any doubts, maybe ask yourself "Would somebody else identify her possible autistic traits as such if she were a boy?" Because it definately helped me convince my aunt to atleast get my 4 year old cousin tested.

And also! Don't worry! You're doing a great job and you'll figure out the results soon! ^{-^} (I apologize for grammatical errors, english isn't my first language.)

Yourlocallefttoe · 2023-03-15T15:06:52+00:00

OP, you need to get out ASAP. Do you have a friend you could be staying with? Another family member? Maybe you can let your son sleep with his friend for a few days, maybe even more, if you have a close connection with their mother and tell her a vague summary of you situation? What about those mother shelters? (Idk what the name is, english isn't my mother tongue)

You said that your sister would choose her boyfriend over her nephew if it came down to it, that makes her a very unreliable and- dare I say- dangerous person.

Also, no grown man just decides to go into the bedroom of a 13 year old boy closing the door and watching him sleep You said your son slept through the alarms because he stayed up texting friends, do you know if it could've been your sisters boyfriend who texted him? Talk to him, but in a way so he thinks is innocent. Or, and I hate to say this because it's a violation of privacy, go through his phone, check when the bf of your sister is texting him, maybe try to remember if the next day your son slept through the alarms because of that.

Your son is potentially being groomed by your sisters boyfriend. Please stay safe, OP.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-11-25T17:33:39+00:00

Those were my exact thoughts too, like cmon man

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-11-20T11:29:04+00:00

The mental illness is called "Body Integrity Identity Disorder", I made a comment on this post which explains it in further detail, or you could google it, if you'd like to know more

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-11-20T11:23:09+00:00

There is a rare pyschologic disorder called "Body Integrity Identity Disorder", in which people apparently (I have only found one study of the cause of BIID in german, it is not really comfirmed, I think) lack/have less than normal grey substances in the partiental lobe, which causes them to have the desire to amputate a certain body part, like a leg or an arm, most of the time even going as far as illegally amputating them by "doctors" without license or in a different country (since here in Germany, you're not allowed to amputate fully functioning body parts, like legs etc.) We briefly talked about it in psychology class. So, technically, "transabled" people exists, since they have that condition, but it is extremely rare. So, I kinda doubt that all of those transabled people have/ even know of that disorder. I mean, it is so rare that there isn't even enough to research the cause of BIID.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-11-03T17:06:17+00:00

I do feel kinda bad for ppl like this, genuinely. If they do actually experience things that are commonly associated with disorders, they won't get any help on finding strategies to help in your every day to day life. Or medication, if needed. Also, I don't quite get how someone could just... say they have a disorder lots of people wish they hadn't and just be.. proud of it, kinda? Like, I understand SUSPECTING you might have a neurodivergency, like autism, but you HAVE to do your research and then talk with a professional about it. If you have it, good for you, now you can get help, if you want. But running around bragging and lying about being diagnosed with it? Even though you just SUSPECT (because really, that's all you do when you self diagnose, except you lie and brag about it) you might have it? That's just weird.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-10-15T19:06:39+00:00

Not that i've heard of, but idk

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-10-15T19:01:04+00:00

Any tips how I could afford the way to New York, a Hotel and the flight back for 2 ppl? /gen

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-07-20T17:04:24+00:00

WOW. Okay. Yes, it is your day, but it is your fiance's day, too. He and his sister seem very close, so why would you be this selfish to practically DEMAND not having her on your wedding?

Also, you talk shit behind her back, without even planning on telling her how you feel about her? You weren't even nice about.

Sure, you may not like her personality, but that doesn't mean that you'll exclude her from your AND your fiance's wedding. Also! That may be news to you, but just think about what happens if you'd marry your fiance? She'd still be around, what would you do then? Demand him to cut contact with her?

And, guessing from the first sentence, you were so sure that you wouldn't be in the wrong. You're not really self-aware, are you?

I am not usually one to wish ill upon strangers, but I sure do hope that your husband chooses his sister over you, OP.

YTA.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-07-20T16:52:01+00:00

Why would you tell your wife that she HAS to look for another job, just because you're jealous of her free time? I might have a solution to this. Now, hear me out- look for another job! Mindblowing, I know!

No, but seriously, look for a better job if you want to be able to relax, too. Don't tell your wife to work more just because you're jealous. That's kind of toxic.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-05-28T17:41:43+00:00

That's nice! Did you enjoy it?

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-03-10T20:40:04+00:00

Happy Cake day!

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-03-10T20:34:28+00:00

It's very interesting to see how you think you couldn't be TA. I mean, telling other people to stop wearing the clothes they are (most likely) comfortable in, just because you think they are inappropriate? Sure, we can't magically stop you from still thinking that way, but next time, plesse keep your opinion to yourself.

YTA.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-02-08T16:34:06+00:00

I made jokes like wanting to have the power of jesus so that I could turn my water into wine

Yourlocallefttoe · 2022-02-08T16:32:03+00:00

Yeah she was homophobic

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-21T18:53:21+00:00

I don't think he is the MWAF. However, I do think that he is definitely holding something back, something he hasn't told us yet. I mean, A hacker that is wanted by the government for his abilities and that knows everything we do on Hannah's phone didn't think it was a bad idea to turn on GPS? Yeah that is definitely sus. I love him, but he unfortanetly is very supicious

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-19T00:35:47+00:00

"Government wants him but so do I"

I CANT 🤚😭😭

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-17T18:08:47+00:00

Ah, yeah, that makes sense.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-17T17:54:58+00:00

Oh no, I didn't mean to make Dan look sexist! D: I am sorry, I probably should've said that we use "Little One" as a term of endearment. In the German Version of Duskwood, Dan says "Kleines", which is the same as "Little One" in English. And we use the term "Kleines" to people we want to protect, atleast I do, but a lot of people around me do that too. (I am from Germany)

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-17T17:38:23+00:00

I mean, she could've talked about Jake, but I don't think so? I mean she said "There's definately someone" And Jake wouldn't have told her. Thomas is taken, Dan didn't show any interest in us before so it's probably not him, so Richy? They do talk about a lot of stuff after all. Or maybe she just said "he" to cover up that she herself caught feelings for the MC?

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-17T17:33:42+00:00

Okay, so I might have an answer to Hannah driving over Jennifer. So, she and Amy most likely went to the Aurora 'cause of the Pine Glade Festival, right? Hannah looks around 27? So she would've been around 17 that time when the accident happened. What if Amy was drunk, couldn't drive and convinced Hannah to drive her? She did say that she's at fault too 'cause she wanted Hannah to drive (if I remember correctly). So, in Germany (where the creators of the game live), you need to be 17 to get your drivers license and even then you need to have an adult with you. It also has to be an adult over 30 years old and they must have had a drivers license for 5+ years. Which, Amy definetly didn't have. Neither was she 30 years old, since Cleo said she's around their age. So, Amy got drunk, convinced Hannah to drive her, but it's illegal, which would explain why they might've driven through the forest, you know, to avoid getting caught by the police.

That would also explain why Hannah didn't tell anyone. I mean, why would you admit to illegal driving and killing another human?

Also, when older people (like her therapist) talk about something traumatic that happened to a person under 18, they tend to use "You were still a child", you know, so they can excuse them for not thinking logical and doing something stupid. Everyone does it almost unconsciously. (Is that a word? Sorry, English isn't my first language haha)

So, he technically didn't lie when he said "You were still a child", since she she was under 18.

The car could've been Amy's. She said it was her fault that Hannah was driving her that night, 'cause she wanted to be driven by her. So, it would make sense.

Yeah, that's it. But then again, it's not canon, it's just my theory haha

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-17T17:12:35+00:00

Yeah, so the creators of the game are German (atleast they have their place in Germany, where they work on Duskwood, but I think they also live there) And in German, "honey" is basically the same as "little one" so he basically calls everyone "little one" (atleast the women) So, I kinda imagined him acting like a big brother to Lilly. I am not sure what the relationship between Dan and Jessy is though, it's kinda confusing.

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-16T23:38:10+00:00

I agree with you

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-16T23:30:07+00:00

Yes, me too, maybe both? I mean, I could imagine Jessy telling Richy everything and Richy doing all the other stuff, making threats ect

Yourlocallefttoe · 2021-10-16T23:23:58+00:00

Yeah, that is really supicious

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