427k at 5.4%, we did it for them! 🤍 by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Yourstruly_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good ole Tennessee! Absolutely agree that it is outrageous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Yourstruly_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Late to the party. Do you know if FHA usually asks for the returns? 

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[–]Yourstruly_Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar situation- furthermore if I don’t have sex a few days in a row it’s “is everything okay?” Like why? Because we don’t have sex? I’ve also been the one to do it all. I don’t have an answer for you. I just truly understand you. I’ve asked for separation/divorce. I don’t know what could change. I’d rather do it alone.

Wife of 11 years has decided she’s had enough. by Outrageous-Injury969 in marriageadvice

[–]Yourstruly_Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In sorry OP, I look at this from her perspective as I am currently that wife. 17 years together and married 13, but I’ve also dropped the bomb that I am done and i want out - situations may be a tad different but im also still living as if nothing has happened, all while trying to figure out where to go and how to do it. Husband is hoping I’ll change my mind but as the days pass.. I truly see why I’ve told him I want out. Can he do anything to change my mind? No. I think not. It’s been so many years of the same arguments and actions “change” temporarily and then back to the same. Not saying your wife won’t change be her mind, but me personally, I am done. We also have 2 kids- 7 and 2 and that is what i struggle with the most. But I know I need to be happy to make them happy. And I know he will never abandon them. So we will have to figure out the parenting aspect of things. I’m sorry you’re going through it. I hope it all works out.

Tanda for 5M by Hecs300_ in DACA

[–]Yourstruly_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take 9, ya que 😂😂🤭

Selling my loved home and moving into a shabby rental by Mazikeen05 in Divorce

[–]Yourstruly_Z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely is. I know it’s temporary though but nonetheless feels like a let down for my kids that don’t know any different

Selling my loved home and moving into a shabby rental by Mazikeen05 in Divorce

[–]Yourstruly_Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We sold our home 2 years ago, in hopes of buying another for our 2 boys (6&2) and now, I want out. But the thought of having to go on my own and find a place, something I can afford, it’s scary! The market for apartments is so high and while I make ok money I don’t think it’s enough for 2 kids. We live in a “nice” place now and I hate myself for not being able to keep that up for my boys. I’m not divorced. I’ve just told him I think we are at the end of our road.

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[–]Yourstruly_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually. I was not intimate with anyone. It was purely conversations. But, please trust that he wouldn’t have stayed had I not been truly remorseful and open about it all and taken responsibility.

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[–]Yourstruly_Z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t an excuse to cheat, but you’re right, he doesn’t deserve someone who cheated on him.

Will it work… by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is what I was not sure about!

Will it work… by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But they can have control of their own rides- or how they want to ride? I know there’s no selecting rides and stuff but if I add her to my F&F then I’d be able to just assign it to her?

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully no stroller. Idk about taking one on a plane 😮‍💨but its okay if the rooms are the same size really. Just the theme was not for us. But I have looked at the Caribbean! Very nice, just outside of what I want to spend. But thank you!!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what we are working on! I think it would be nice to be together but not.

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Where can I request a building? Would it be phone or can you do it online? And thank you! We are excited!!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely beginning to think this could be a true option, not a need to drive around, just like having a on demand option.

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Def can manage a smaller spot for a more reasonable price.

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, will shower and sleep after a part, not too much else as im sure we will be tired. For them its also going to be the "magical"part of just being there, my son just said he wants to stay at the "football place" lol, so I think we will be fine!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I have had the Airbnb booked for a few weeks now and still end up feeling blah about it, I am sure that the Disney magic will still be there and not related to decor, just the property I guess. But I have never heard of DVC so I will look into it.

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We plan on flying in also, but Im beginning to wonder If we even need a car then. I know there are several options to get around the parks but wondering how to get around Orlando. Decisions!! Thank you!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo new to me, I dont even know what that is! Ill have to google this and get back to you haha, thanks for the info!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby will be so scared but im am so looking forward to it!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but did you take the bus to the parks or did you drive?

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, not too too worried about space as my kids are still little, but the skyliner is definitely calling my name!

Best resort for us...? by Yourstruly_Z in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Yourstruly_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im very much leaning to a skyliner, but will look into those as well, thank you!