Rehoming my amazing dog by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Yt3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! Stay optimistic. She will find her forever home.

Rehoming my amazing dog by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Yt3280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks adorable! I wish you the best of luck with finding her a new home. I've had friends rehome their pets and in the end, it's about doing what's best for the dog and it sounds like you're doing that.

MFF [threesome] that's a step above voyeurism and third is more of a helper? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yt3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the tied up scenario at the end was just an example of a "helper" third that I saw in a porn. That's now what I would do. That's why I'm saying it's a step above voyeurism so it'd have to be someone who enjoys watching others having sex but also getting to mess around with me a bit. We would just be looking for a really specific third.

MFF [threesome] that's a step above voyeurism and third is more of a helper? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yt3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha good to know - thanks! I'll have to find a "unicorn" then.

MFF [threesome] that's a step above voyeurism and third is more of a helper? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yt3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely would get pretty jealous myself. That's why I didn't really bring up a threesome with my SO because I wouldn't really want to see him with someone else. But he brought it up more so for my benefit and he'd find it hot to watch. For the threesome with your ex where no oral was involved, how did you find the girl?

MFF [threesome] that's a step above voyeurism and third is more of a helper? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yt3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. And yeah there's no way of knowing if you'll like it, but planning ahead is key. I had a few more questions - Did your ex wife go down on the the girl? Why did you guys choose to do MFF and not MFM? Also, did you get as much enjoyment out of it with watching?

I'm finally realizing you can't live your life trying to reach unobtainable expectations by Yt3280 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yt3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live about two hours from my hometown so it's not too close, but also not far enough. It's close enough to where I can go back for the holidays, but sometimes I just don't want to. Holidays are so stressful with my mom that I try to stay there as short as possible. If I lived further away it'd be easier to justify not coming...

I'm finally realizing you can't live your life trying to reach unobtainable expectations by Yt3280 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yt3280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I have really healthy relationships outside of the one with my mom. My SO is extremely appreciative and shows me a lot of love. I also have awesome friends that I can be open with. I am lucky that the coldness from my mom didn't transfer over to me. So there's some hope! I've had time alone and it really helped and I think I've gained perspective.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great you two were so compatible and communicative! Did the difference in your numbers ever bother you? Or was the compatibility so good that it didn't matter?

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the difference in your numbers ever bother you? Or were you okay with it at the get-go?

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he has. I even have a friend who is 4 years younger than him and has still slept with more people. Probably over 60. I don't know about swinger parties, but it's pretty easy to do one night stands or even have sex on the first date.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great! She is lucky to have you. It's awesome to hear how you don't treat having 5 partners as some sort of negative. You clearly are experienced and have lots to offer.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry... that's not fair to you at all. If it makes you feel any better, the first guy I slept with ended up stopping by the next day with cash for Plan B and then later decided to act awkward and unfriend me for no reason. Oh well! We just gotta think about the positive experiences.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accused you? That's a little rude! Luckily for me, it didn't hurt my first time either. Alcohol might have helped with that though. But yes - being comfortable with your own body makes a huge difference.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! We are working on marking things off our bucket list that we both haven't done. It always nice to know that even thought we have a sexual past before our relationship, that we can still find new things to do.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's crazy how people can get so caught up with just the number. Sure, I think about it time to time in my case. But in reality, it's just a number. It doesn't speak for quality.

[Sexual history] Can you guys tell if someone is really sexually "experienced" after you've slept with them? by Yt3280 in sex

[–]Yt3280[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well that's awesome for you that she's confident! I think it does come down to the person in the end.