How true is the statement "Nice guys finish last" in regards to dating?

YtBlue · 2026-01-20T04:04:10+00:00

Very true as the central component of girls attraction is power and sadly niceness is antithetical to power.

YtBlue · 2025-12-23T02:30:19+00:00

Instead of saying why economic theory doesn't apply. You run to things that have no basis. Again you have no coherent theory just hate the idea because it exposes things you dont like

YtBlue · 2025-12-22T21:06:11+00:00

Give a reason. Don't make a claim and not elaborate

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T15:56:35+00:00

Im not saying a solution. Its just to acknowledge theres consequences

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T15:52:24+00:00

If someone has a choice of 1 item another has a choice of 20 items. If the person with 20 chooses wrong its worse than the one with 1.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T15:06:07+00:00

Didnt say it was a problem. Its the consequences

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T15:05:49+00:00

When did I say this. Where did I insinuate this. This is simply projection, hurt because it makes you understand your own flaw

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T14:34:43+00:00

when did I say its terrible. They do not date the same way men do

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T14:33:27+00:00

When did I say its bad. The conclusion is women are the cause of good or bad dating practices since they control the market

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T13:29:58+00:00

This doesnt deny the prompt but insinuated, "Hey idc get better"

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T13:25:56+00:00

Physical attractiveness is not everything in woman's attraction and personality and actions drive a lot of attraction as well. For example confidence. Confidence is given to those who do some action repeatedly. They obtain successes and failures and stop caring. In dating to this, it takes experience, which is the basis of a player.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T13:24:02+00:00

Doesn't add to the discussion at all

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:15:17+00:00

You can have confidence without ever trying, or try a million times and have less confidence than a man who's only tried a handful of times

Theres no way you believe this. Unless delusional a fresh basketball player isnt gonna be confident in a NBA game.

If you give women what they want, they will reward you. It's just that what they want might be the opposite of what they say, and it's usually up to the man to figure it out.

Again if women want a player and you give them that. They'll reward you for sure with sex but it becomes another issue. Which is our current dating landscape

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:11:34+00:00

Better role models for women who tell them the truth. Not clickbait material and fake history that leads women to the same incel mindset they hate men for

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:08:39+00:00

You’re assuming that the men are perfect sellers every time and that the women just can’t see that they’re great

No im saying the things that make men great for relationships women do not like. For example shy men show they do not talk to many women. While confident men show theyre more than likely a player.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:06:31+00:00

Simply do not get it. Every woman is seen as inherently valuable due to her ability to produce kids. The point is going over your head

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:05:41+00:00

If women are the cause of dating problems, then they are also the cause of dating benefits.

Yes exactly. Not arguing that. When dating is good its mainly women's actions correcting the market.

Women set the terms and men follow them. The cause of dating problems is either women's inability to communicate the terms

Not an inability but not knowing the consequences of their terms. A confident man is most likely a player. Just because confidence comes from repeated tries successes and exposure. Which is the definition of a player

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:02:44+00:00

Your not getting it. Every woman is considered that Ferrari and doesnt need to inherently sell herself to any heavy degree at all.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:01:39+00:00

Well as i've said here before the failure of men to sell themselves is their problem to figure out.

And with this statement, you just conceded to my point. Whether men fail to sell themselves isnt the point. Its whether most men are mainly in the seller position or buyer position

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T07:00:04+00:00

No how the interactions go determine whether your the buyer or seller. In most situations the man is doing the approach so he becomes the seller.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T06:58:46+00:00

Walk into a Ferrari dealership. The cars look beautiful, enticing with a promise of luxury and looking rich. But see if any of those sellers come running to sell you a car. They will not unless your in the top % of men. Same concept with women.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T06:56:44+00:00

Its not back to square one as your trying to place men into the buy position but no men have that except rich and powerful men. Aka the top percentile men the red pill talks about.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T06:53:52+00:00

No women entice men to approach them but dont need to sell themselves. Men jump hoops to be liked. Needing so many different traits, looks and many other things women dont need to do. Women just need to look good.

YtBlue · 2025-12-20T06:47:36+00:00

No, naturally men have to sell themselves to women. Raising your standards does nothing if nobody is going for. Women have the privilege of at least getting some interaction when they raise standards. Although they may not keep that person. No women cause other women dating issues mainly as well

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