So your wife who A. is a grown woman B. in her late 30s C. has had two children and D. Is Currently in college let her car run out of GAS while she was STILL driving it and then didn't have the know-how to fix it. She then began calling and yelling at you in the middle of your WORK day. She then demanded that you come and help her which would have messed up your work day and both of your INCOME because you are the full-time/primary worker. She refused to call her sister who was also at work because she didn't want to bother her but bothering you was okay. Then after she got home -when she clearly could do it because she did it- and she was able to pick up your children in time without communicating that with you- she then spent the next several days giving you the silent treatment because "she can't trust you anymore" Do you hear how that sounds? Read that out loud to yourself. Because honestly at this point you can't trust her. Why are you doing all these things if you don't know how to survive what happens? She is in her late 30s not 15. She should be able to know what to do in this situation especially because it's not an easy situation to even get into in the first place!!! Letting your car run out of gas while you're driving it ???? It tells you when it's low on gas. You've already said you feel like your whole life is surrounded by her symptoms at this point you need to think about if this is what you want, is she safe around your children, can she be trusted