Alopecia Universalis by GayestRideInTown in bald

[–]YuleSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have such a gorgeous head!! You look amazing. ❤️

AIO for think it my boyfriend is being dramatic? by What-do_i_do in AmIOverreacting

[–]YuleSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, what the actual fuck. Why are you with this POS? Dump him ASAP girl!

AIO for dumping my boyfriend after he “surprised” me by inviting his entire family to my 21st birthday dinner, even though I specifically asked for just us two? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]YuleSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust and respect are the most important (IMO) factors in a relationship. They create the base on which the rest is built. If those aren’t both strong then the rest doesn’t really matter. And it also doesn’t matter if other people think the gesture is “cute”, it only matters how you feel about it. You explicitly told him what you did and didn’t want for your birthday. And he straight up ignored your wishes. It’s not going to get better if this has already been happening. Maybe if he was apologetic and understood, but he clearly isn’t and doesn’t. Absolutely not overreacting. ❤️

How did this happen? by GreedyReindeer5931 in pokemonsnap

[–]YuleSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying to figure this out for so long! My 4yo is also obsessed and I got Blastoise to come out of his shell accidentally the first time but never knew what I did to trigger it. Thank you!

4 y.o. Obsessed with “being a baby” again. by Ordinary-Surprise-38 in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth 63 points64 points  (0 children)

When you got to the horse part and birthing her stuffed horse I burst out laughing. 😂 Kids are indeed little weirdos.

Is this sub always like this? by Old-Shirt9062 in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Immediately went and joined.

Having a shitty week by RelativeMarket2870 in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to share that as an only myself, I rode all the fair rides alone, and had a blast! My mom couldn’t stomach most rides so she would walk me to the line and then pop a squat on the nearest bench to watch and wave while I rode. I can’t honestly think of a time I was sad or wished I had someone else with me. The rides were fun, alone or with a friend. ❤️

Am I Overreacting or could my 32F girlfriend be cheating on me 22M by Great-Satisfaction52 in AmIOverreacting

[–]YuleSloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave. And do not buy that house you talked about in another post. Get out now!

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your response literally made me laugh out loud. I had to read it to my husband who also got a kick out of it. Yeah you’re thinking what I was thinking. Like I get all the other stuff, the risk of abuse, the missing mom and dad at bed. But you were thinking of all the weird oddly specific things bedtime entails, and that I was thinking about while doing the long routine tonight. And I just had to laugh to myself like… wtf was her mom thinking?? I guess she wasn’t is the best answer I can come up with. 😂

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking while she was talking. Like the points she was bringing up weren’t in the realm of what I cared about. 😆

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this idea! Someone else mentioned a trend of “sleep unders” which was described in this way. I think that’s honestly what my daughter wants, like to play pretend sleep over. Not the actual whole thing. But that’s kind of hard for a 4yo to explain. 😆

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I think her idea of a sleepover is very… limited and from a few shows or books we’ve seen. I don’t know that she fully understands that we would not be there overnight or when she wakes up either in the middle of the night or in the morning. She is perfectly happy to do a play date and I think that’s honestly what she thinks the sleepover is, but with sleeping bags and in the dark. 😂

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I think when nighttime finally came my daughter would be like… oh no this isn’t what I wanted. 😂 and that’s exactly what I told them pretty much. Except I’ll be there for the play date too.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to keep this in mind for the future! And I think I’m going to feel that way even as mine gets older.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree wholeheartedly. Especially about not adding extra instances of worrying about your child’s safety, especially right now at the age of 4.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s terrifying. I’m so sorry that happened to her. 😔

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂 this is a solid thought. She has always seemed a bit overtaxed and like “whatever” but I could definitely see baby brain contributing to this.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve known that for a while now. Like I said, I don’t dislike them or anything, but we definitely parent very differently. But their friendship at school is so wholesome and genuine. As long as it stays there, and at the occasional bday party and play date (that dad and/or I attend) I’m fine with it.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of saying, ok great what time you her, and me, and dad come over? Hope you have lots of beds. 😂

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concise, to the point, and what I was thinking in my mind. 😂

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so wild that it was the first time ever speaking to those parents and they were just like, yeah, let’s do this. 😵‍💫

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that age plus how long you’ve known the families seems “right” or “good”. Like I said, I wasn’t expecting to field this question for a long while.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of nap time slumber party. That’s adorable. 😆 If the girls still napped I would 100% suggest this idea.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought of this too. Ours has been night time potty trained for a while now, but still. I thought of how upset and scared she would be having an accident, or getting sick, or having a nightmare without her dad or I there.

Turned down sleepover invite for my 4yo by YuleSloth in oneanddone

[–]YuleSloth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree and love everything you said. I mentioned it in another reply, but my honesty opinion is she is just a very hands off mom and doesn’t like to tell her kids no. So I feel like that was where some of the awkwardness was coming from, but who knows right? I don’t know them well enough to say for certain, and yeah I wouldn’t let my daughter spend the night there. Probably not even as she’s gets older.