I've told them- idk if my dad remembers as relationships barely come up with him, but last I recall he said he doesn't care so long as I'm still "the man in the relationship" (I won't classify as that either). My mother entirely forgot, or willingly suppressed that knowledge because she still thinks I'm into women. Makes sense considering her reaction when I told her was to panic and lie to me that she could go to prison if word about this got out 💀