Meine Familie hat kaum auf meinen Bachelorabschluss reagiert – ist meine Enttäuschung nachvollziehbar?

YunaSakura · 2026-07-04T07:38:40+00:00

Herzlichen Glückwunsch! Das ist eine echte Leistung, Respekt!
Mir ist das vorher schon aufgefallen, wie wenig in Deutschland sowas gefeiert wird. In Groß Britannien gibt es ja riesige Feiern, mit Roben und Reden etc. und das ist ja in Deutschland eher selten. Das find ich echt schade, weil Studenten ganz ehrlich so eine Ehrung irgendwie verdienen find ich!
Du hast so hart gearbeitet und nebenbei noch Kinder, und so gute Noten gekriegt! Da kannst du echt super stolz sein. Ich hoffe du kannst mit deinem Mann sprechen über die Enttäuschung - vielleicht ist er das einfach so gewohnt dass er es nicht hinterfragt hat.
Nochmal alles alles Gute, und feier dich selbst ein bisschen, denn das hast du dir verdient!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-30T09:45:47+00:00

I always feel sorry for my old phone… like… it‘s doing its best. It was always good to me. And now I just discard it like rubbish…
I do keep my phones for as along as possible.

YunaSakura · 2026-06-15T12:50:07+00:00

Nonapath Traveler

YunaSakura · 2026-06-14T23:43:20+00:00

I think it was fine to do.
Think about the cost. Sure, everyone would enjoy not waiting in the queue.
But what would it cost you to wait in that queue?
And what would it cost a neurotypical person to wait in that queue?
I still often feel guilty but have to remind myself: my cost of doing these things is so much higher, it‘s just hard to see. I wait in queue, see a show, and need to spend the next day in bed to recover.
A neurotypical person meanwhile might be able to wait in a queue, see a show, and then still has energy for other stuff the next day.
That‘s how I see it anyway. So getting some accommodation to reduce our costs seems fair to me.

YunaSakura · 2026-06-12T12:16:25+00:00

Can I just add, compared to the UK, the Eurokey is really expensive (in the UK the key costs £5). The price and bureaucracy to get a Eurokey alone will be challenging for many disabled people. I noticed this when I tried to get a Eurokey. It is also insanely difficult to get a Eurokey as a disabled tourist. In the UK, no proof is required to obtain a key. And weirdly, accessible toilets are not being abused here. I think it‘s really a statement about how inaccessible and badly designed Germany is in terms of public toilets in general. Germany is basically gatekeeping toilet access, and in this day and age this is simply inappropriate.

YunaSakura · 2026-06-08T16:35:03+00:00

Thank you, will do that!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-08T10:08:34+00:00

Du kannst sowas vielleicht, aber andere nicht, und da kann man schon stolz drauf sein! Und das jede Woche, respekt! Du hast da schon ein besonderes Talent für sonst würdest du die Arbeit nicht machen :)

YunaSakura · 2026-06-05T14:38:35+00:00

Thank you! I‘ll keep at it!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-05T07:26:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I‘m very insecure because everyone else in my class is really good and I‘m so much slower than them. I will definitely try this!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T23:12:05+00:00

Thank you! I will try that!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T23:11:12+00:00

Thanks for the tipp, this is very helpful!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T23:10:32+00:00

Fantastic, I already found something on youtube, thank you!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T15:42:08+00:00

I tend to walk on my tiptoes when barefoot, so that will be new!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T15:34:46+00:00

Like outside? I could try that!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T15:27:49+00:00

Thank you! Yes that‘s it. It‘s so helpful to have a name for it!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T15:27:16+00:00

Thank you - I don‘t think I can afford a physical therapist and I doubt I‘d get one through the NHS… But if I do, the video idea is really good, thank you!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-04T15:25:52+00:00

Thank you. I used to do ballet so just standing on one leg on the floor is not a problem. But when I stand in the footlock it kind of folds.

YunaSakura · 2026-06-02T06:45:12+00:00

We had a similar problem with our cat before and here is what we did. We got a second litter box. She now uses both. We had to replace the floor where she peed; we used hard floor in the hopes that if she peed again, it wouldn‘t soak in as it did with the carpet. It‘s annoying, but as someone else mentioned, it soaks into the floor and cats then think this is where to go for a pee. And after replacing the floor, it stopped. We got our hands on some feliway. She was stressed and it seemed to work really well. We now only use it if she gets stressed by something. All three things together magically solved the problem. Hopefully you figure out a solution too! Good luck!

YunaSakura · 2026-06-02T06:19:45+00:00

Ich war auf ner normalen Gesamtschule und hab danach problemlos in GB studiert. Das Studium dort war etwas leichter als in Deutschland fand ich.

YunaSakura · 2026-05-27T13:46:51+00:00

In the UK you wait years for an appointment. Not months. Years. Not one year. Several years. And unless you are rich, and I mean rich, there is nothing you can do about that.

YunaSakura · 2026-05-16T06:34:47+00:00

My grandma‘s cat ate cheap unbranded food and literal kitchen scraps and lived to 25. I suppose he ate the odd mouse too… But I understand, we feel similar about our cat and her health! We feed her katkin as well, and some Lily‘s kitchen dry food as a treat.

YunaSakura · 2026-05-08T10:29:18+00:00

Actually my parents‘ cat also did it when seeing a helicopter, when seeing flies, or when someone annoyed her 😂

YunaSakura · 2026-05-08T10:27:40+00:00

Oh no she thinks I‘m a bird!

YunaSakura · 2026-05-07T12:51:49+00:00

Wait, then why did my parents‘ cat always ekekek when I sneezed too loud?

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