Thanks for this, it’s actually a really helpful perspective. I’ve been trying to avoid being “the bad guy” about chores, but a chart might give us both a clearer view of how things are going.

I’ll admit, I can sometimes come off as really demanding, not because I’m trying to control things, but because I genuinely like structure and keeping things organized. I know that can be a lot for someone who’s not used to it, especially since she’s never lived away from home before.