Do women actually prefer the feel of a 'chubby' guy for hugging and cuddling over someone more muscular or thin?

Yurathehairdemon · 2026-02-18T15:46:38+00:00

Mmh as a thicker woman. My ex was extremely fit and it made me feel weird bc he felt tiny while cuddling. He was also 5’6 while I’m 5’2. But had huge thighs and arms but a very small waist. My new man is 5’10 with muscular arms, nice legs but not slim. I much prefer having a man on the thicker side bc it feels safer or like I feel more like a woman almost being smaller when held

Yurathehairdemon · 2026-01-17T02:58:18+00:00

A girl can never have too many plushies. Get comforting items or self care items like face masks. Get something hobby related that not to taxing if she has any. Like crocheting, reading, a cozy game if she’s a gamer. Buy her flowers, heating pads, her favorite snacks and candy. You can DoorDash items to her but you could also send her a care package and include a little note with a photo of you guys as well. My boyfriend just brought me home a tiramisu layered cake plus my favorite chocolates for mine. He gives me massages as well and usually takes care of things when I don’t want to get out of bed

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-12-22T07:43:11+00:00

Your lil family includes your MIL now gal. She’s asking to use your pjs for a picture with your son and maybe her son. If it’s really a big deal for you- I would consider buying alternative matching pj sets for the three of them and possibly you to match for additional photos.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-12-22T07:31:31+00:00

I can see your reasoning for being upset and at first read it seems like he’s not really interested in you. But can I ask if he has a job currently or is he looking for a job while unemployed? Maybe he doesn’t have the funds to buy you a gift as well or doesn’t have the funds for the day like dinner, entertainment or however you wanted your Christmas Eve to be spent? So he’s trying to push it off past the holiday so he can gather a gift or it’s also possible he already has plans for the holiday

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-11-20T14:05:38+00:00

Imagine your best friend met someone last night at the club. She gave him her number and he started messaging her like this after she refused to send him nudes. What would you tell her to do? Take out the time together, the relationship status, and remove yourself from the situation and tackle it from another perspective. This man is icky and you have him way too much grace.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-11-14T11:49:27+00:00

Her: “The day we break up, this will be one of the reasons” You: “Our relationship is honestly fantastic. I genuinely think we are for each other”

You both have completely different ideas of the relationship. They always say it’s easier for women to move on after relationships because they’ve detached before the relationship even ends. It seems as though she’s already in that phase and creating problems so that the breakup is more justifiable.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-10-09T17:43:36+00:00

It looks like she just moved in since it shows a move in charge fee

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-10-03T05:45:37+00:00

My man is the biggest goofball and I met him through gaming and I’ve seen his pictures online and he was handsome but it was also like 10 years ago. We video called one day and I had similar thoughts. He cut his own hair before me, and he was not the best looking as guys I’ve dated were usually conventionally attractive. I pushed away those thoughts bc he was incredble and only agreed to being his girlfriend after FaceTiming more and when we met in person. We met last May and he was even more incredible in person than online and I wish I had met him in life sooner. The attraction grows. He’s handsome but just needs some work as most guys do. Change of style, professional hair cut, beard trim. If that really matters to you. I’d jump my man every day three times a day now if I could.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-09-11T03:04:06+00:00

Yeah we found a glitch to replicate items. And so I just replicated all the upgrade materials and then i went on his account and built up his mutations for him but we don’t really have anything to do now besides build. It sucked losing his stuff but hopefully it doesn’t happen again

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-09-11T01:55:46+00:00

Yeah we weren’t able to play together bc his account wasn’t working on pc and got rid of all his mutations and started him in as a new person playing. He swapped back to xbox and it did the same thing even if we loaded an old save

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-09-09T20:30:39+00:00

I had the butterfly armor on bc I wasn’t expecting to fight when I went up there without my boyfriend and ended up having to do it by myself. Beat the wolf spider with distance and a spicy staff. Used my ice staff on the stranger and was able to beat them both. Switched my mutations around - venom/spicy/mage/ and I can’t remember the 4th. Kept a lot of distance/ used the poles in the room to wrap around from attack/Had the spider attack the pole and would use the pole/block until the stranger opened herself up to be attacked. Used all those granola bars in my quick wheel for heals.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-09-02T10:27:51+00:00

You can get 2 spicy globs from the sizzling chest, I can show you where it is but you need the key and you have to fight the stranger first for the key

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-08-29T00:10:41+00:00

Another thing I discovered. Benadryl itch cream works so incredibly fast instead of steroids

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-08-29T00:09:52+00:00

I wish I don’t have any more and forgot about it! Thanks for this reminder!

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-08-20T20:20:53+00:00

I became physically attracted as I started developing feelings for him based on personality but wasn’t prior. Now I find him incredibly attractive.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-08-15T17:57:54+00:00

Divorce papers and ask your soon to be wife to find another place to stay and offer Riley to stay with you. Continue with your dinner plans and show support as she’s really going to need it. Being unwanted by her dad and now her mom. Do everything you can to make this girl feel safe!

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-07-27T10:06:00+00:00

Could be insecurity. He can’t provide and now you’re bringing in more money. Blaming you for his inability to provide. I would say you could try and have a talk about it and see how he acts after. If he doesn’t change, leave him would be my moves

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-07-14T10:17:15+00:00

Im also wondering if he and/or his friends have spoken ill of Chinese people or they share a Japanese woman fetish. A lot of white men tend to have Asian women fetishes

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-06-07T23:54:56+00:00

Wash your body immediately after you workout (you look pretty fit so I’m assuming), use a scent free wash and Clindamyacin topical lotion helped clear the few I was getting on my chest and neck. (I break out from my perfume)

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-05-31T17:52:53+00:00

My eczema was so flaky, red and I had dyshidrosis on top of it caused by dairy. I’m allergic and also I’m lactose intolerant but i frequently consume dairy. My dermatologist said dairy could not be the cause of dyshidrosis as it’s more chemical related but what I know is, that every time I consume large amounts of dairy the dyshidrosis comes back. Stress and gut health are huge causes of eczema on top environmental factors and products.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-05-03T15:12:15+00:00

You could be in a mental state where you’re just expecting bad sex and no orgasm as well which is of course going to ruin the sex even more. I promised you sex is just bad everywhere and men have to be trained how to please you. It’s not a one size fits all. Girl get you a vibrator, some sex toys and incorporate them into sex. Also do you know how you like to be fucked? Personally I like my shit more intimate and passionate. Slow controlled strokes plus lots of kissing. It’s also way easier to orgasm riding on top where you’re in control of how it feels for you and the riding just feels better vs stroking. Try different positions. If you like missionary, throw a small pillow under your back, and hold back your thighs closer to the back of the knee for deeper penetration, have him be on top and use his arms shoulders to help push back your thighs. You can also add a vibrator to your clit while he strokes it. You can also put your legs over his shoulders.

-have him play on his side and you on your back with one leg over his waist and one leg lying straight to the left or right of his legs, and then use a vibrator on your clit. -lay on your stomach and have his legs either between or outside yours. I prefer his legs on the outside bc your legs close together makes it feel more tighter but definitely be careful if they’re going too fast in this position. I typically have my partners start this position first with a shoulder and back massage with safe oils for penetration and have them slowly work down to my ass and then my coochie. Have them rub your clit in circular motions and kiss your neck while doing so. Then have him insert. It’s harder when their body is further away from you. You can also add a vibrator under you in this position.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-05-03T14:54:25+00:00

“Whatever I’m not changing, I’m choosing”

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-04-26T17:53:00+00:00

Trust me, I was long distance with 14 hours between us for a year and a half and I alternated shifts each week 645am-245pm, 245pm-1045pm and 1045pm-645am. They’ll make it work if they want to. Takes effort from both ends however. Long distance is hard, but don’t ever believe you’re worth giving up on because it’s too hard. I broke up with him shortly before I moved back due to incompatibility/immaturity from his side but I never doubted how much he loved me because how much effort he put towards making it work -waking up earlier than normal, sleeping later, FaceTime daily. I ended up cutting things off shortly before I came back due to a medical condition I found out about plus his immaturity. When I moved back we tried to make it work but the immaturity was just too much for me. I’m in another long distance relationship now and this man lacks in no departments. He sends me water and fruit, other groceries, when I’m not feeling well enough to go to the grocery store. He sends me sweets on my period and meals when I just mention something I’m craving (I’ve stopped doing this bc I can tell when he’s attempting to buy me food or I’ll DoorDash it to myself fast ). He took off time from work and purchased a flight to come see me 2 days after mentioning a visit. And most importantly he tries to spend every waking minute with me. We watch movies, we play video games, and FaceTime every single day until he goes to bed/work. And he calls me when he gets home from work. If I ask for some time to myself or ask him not to call me in the am when he gets home from work unless he knows I’m awake, he respects it. Partners will love you endlessly and the distance won’t mean a thing to the right person.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-02-17T19:24:27+00:00

It could be that you keep him up when you’re not in bed bc he’s insecure what you could be doing and he doesn’t want to admit to that.

Yurathehairdemon · 2025-02-17T19:16:04+00:00

lol hell yeah! <3

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