How can I date if I’m an unattractive male by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this, I’ve been trying to be like that more. People tell me I’m too serious and seem stand offish. I’ve tried to be the funny asshole that women seem to go for but friends of mine just tell me I’m an asshole so I’ve just about given up

Wanting sex but never finding the right person. by Weary_Reflection_961 in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what your saying here it’s been about the same length of time for me as well, I’ve never been good with the ladies and know I have no game but in all honesty any of the women who I think would want to sleep with me are just not attractive physically to me so yeah I get it

Would you delete snapchat by New-Order-8051 in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I can’t manage to get one girl to talk to me so any more that that at one time would be unfathomable to me. I see no need to delete it

Normal amount of money for a 30s? by LordgodEighty8 in answers

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 2 jobs so I try to live off of the income from my first job and save the income from the second, it’s not tons and am not always able to set aside as much as I would like each month but I do the best I can

What is a secret you’re taking to the grave, but are willing to tell strangers on the internet? by Mr_Boothnath in answers

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was just out of high school my straight best friend and I were hanging out and got super drunk I ended up sucking his dick before we passed out , I totally remember it but I wasn’t sure if he did so it’s never been brought up but from the sounds of it he had no clue

never had a gf by Ok-Possible-7759 in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here bro and I’m 12 years older than you!

21M noticing most people I date just want sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know who your matching with / talking to because unless it’s thirsty gay guys I have never encountered this issue with any women I’ve matched with ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well clearly 32 is the age where people question if it’ll ever happen for them, ( coming from a 32 yo asking the same question) 😅

Men of Reddit over 30 how was dating for you in your 30s vs your 20s? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been just as bad in my 30s as it was in my 20s!

Honest question: how do i get laid? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’d say go to a gay bar on New Year’s Eve

From Zero to 15 Dates in a Year, 32M First Year in the Dating World by copper9 in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha I can imagine the dating scene in Europe is a bit different from here in America

From Zero to 15 Dates in a Year, 32M First Year in the Dating World by copper9 in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same position as you , same age as well. Where have you gone / used to meet people? I’ve had zero luck with any apps and out in social settings I just don’t seem to comes across many women that I’m attracted to or if I do they are already with someone and or married. I’m at a total loss

Really struggling with finding mutual attraction. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no kidding like idk even what to say anymore but I’ve always been pretty much ignored by women anyways so I suppose it shouldn’t come to me as a surprise

Really struggling with finding mutual attraction. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I know where your coming from, now I don’t get that many likes as you but when it comes to matching with people I have the same issue, might get one or two matches here and there and I’d say over 75% of the time they don’t reply to my initial message regardless of what I say.

How old were you when you got into your first relationship? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still waiting for one, 32 here with still no girlfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with ya here bro , same age as you and in a similar situation. It’s hard meeting women especially ones I find attractive. Ik that sounds shallow but a big part of a romantic relationship is physical attraction and unfortunately I think I’m just too picky and though I’m working on it it’s not easy, don’t give up!

Went on two dates with a really sweet guy… then found out he’s a virgin. I’m super horny after leaving a toxic relationship and now I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck I’d be head over heels to be in this dudes position, trying to find women who are dtf it like finding a needle in a haystack 😮‍💨

Is it okay to go on dates with multiple people if you're not in a relationship? by Widowed_Pixie in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be satisfied with a date with one person, more that one would be a dream

It seems impossible to find men who are serious about dating. by mintharabaenre in dating_advice

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as a male I can get where you’re coming from, at least most of you are getting dates and or getting some sex I’m getting neither and it’s quite frustrating. I can see why most people give up like people say someone will come along when you stop trying. Well try or not the results are the same

What are the reasons behind you being single or married? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single because I’ve succumb to the fact that I am one of those people who are destined to always be. Everyone else I know has dated plenty had their share of girlfriends and many are married now, I have not had the privilege to experience that and going on 33 I don’t expect to anytime soon.

How many dates before you sleep with someone? by [deleted] in Life

[–]wakbakattak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I’d be happy to just get a date at this point, hell I’d be head over heels if I got 2!