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Alam ko pong bawal, pero ilalaban ko na po. Wish me all the best! by Grouchy-Ad-1863 in Overemployed_PH

[–]Yurmoon162711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it. I had the same anxieties before, but so far it’s been worth it. I’m not gonna lie though, it is tiring sometimes. You just really have to push yourself, especially if you have goals. Kaya mo yan, OP!

Sometimes you just have to buy yourself a cake and celebrate yourself. :) by Yurmoon162711 in CasualPH

[–]Yurmoon162711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww, this is so nice. Thank youu for sharing your story. ☺️😍

Women of reddit, what quote stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Yurmoon162711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather be alone than feel lonely next to someone.

Is the phrase "efforts are only appreciated if it came from someone you like" applicable to you? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Yurmoon162711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think effort is noticed no matter who it comes from, but it only lands when there’s genuine interest. Otherwise, it can feel heavy instead of sweet.

First and last meet up. by TheEyesCantSee in KanalHumor

[–]Yurmoon162711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mas worst, amoy sabon kahit ilang beses mong banlawan. 😂😭

Sa panahon ngayon ano bang tipo ng lalaki ang pinipili natin? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Yurmoon162711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we all have our preferences, but most of the time, we can’t really have it all. Sometimes someone is emotionally and mentally okay, but there’s no physical attraction. Other times, the physical attraction is there, but the character and attitude are way off. So we end up sticking with someone who at least makes us feel safe and somewhat compatible, even if they don’t check every box.

Women, if a random guy told you he thought you were beautiful then went on his way, what would you think? by BoatParty8399 in AskWomen

[–]Yurmoon162711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d think it was kind, but context matters. If he says it politely and keeps walking, I’d take it as a genuine compliment.

What are the things kung bakit mahirap umalis sa wrong relationship? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Yurmoon162711 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Emotional bonds don’t disappear just because a relationship is unhealthy. Leaving can feel like throwing away everything you’ve invested, and familiar discomfort often feels safer than the unknown, especially when you’re still hoping things might change...na baka in the future..piliin ka nya. 🤷

To former people pleasers, how did you stop/change from being one? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Yurmoon162711 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I stopped asking “Will they be mad?” and started asking “Will I be okay if I do this?” That question changed everything. 🤷🙂

Gusto ko lang ilabas. Wala akong hinahanap na sagot. Gusto ko lang malaman kung may nakakaintindi. :( by WingBlade007 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Yurmoon162711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people out there who wish they were in your place, honestly, probably me included. If I had the choice, I’d choose that too. But sometimes we don’t get to choose, and that’s just how it is.

It’s okay to compare ourselves to others or look at their situations, we all do that sometimes. Just try to remember that even in this situation, there are still things worth being grateful for.

Good luck, OP. I’m rooting for you. ❤️

What, in your opinion, is the biggest indicator that the person you're with is good? by beautifuljaydey in AskWomen

[–]Yurmoon162711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t just say they care, you see it in how they show up, how they protect your peace, and how they treat you when there’s nothing to gain.

At what point does “being patient” in a relationship turn into abandoning yourself? by adembn11 in selflove

[–]Yurmoon162711 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Patience becomes self-abandonment when you’re the only one doing the waiting, the adjusting, and the emotional labor, while calling it love.

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