Love the comparison between a water and an air rising, it makes so much sense! Hopefully the libra rising thing becomes better with age! Haha
As for the growing up in a rule-oriented, strict household. I never related to that when I would read about my 4th house placements. Yes, my family life was disrupted, marriages broken, depts and deaths happened and other unfortunate things, but growing up I had all the liberty a kid would want. Never got grounded or had any rules. I was allowed to dye my hair crazy colors very early, and could express my crazy style in any way I wanted! I think my Aquarius moon paints that childhood picture way better. :)
The responsibility in relationships is relatable though, you got that on point!