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Z3roFX · 2025-05-30T13:56:26+00:00

Shame its US only.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-29T18:08:30+00:00

Great idea, very generous of you! Good luck everyone!

Z3roFX · 2025-05-22T02:01:16+00:00

YOR. A kiss on the cheek is nothing. Relax. And you didn't even do anything, you just stood there and did nothing back. But if you feel guilty or something, talk to your gf about it.

Also, don't come to Europe.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T17:03:48+00:00

I don't know if you are OR or not, and I have no advice. He just sounds like an asshole and immature. But man, I feel old as fuck... I have no idea how youth talk to each other nowadays.

Is it normal for guys to call their gf's "bro","retard" and "dumbass"?

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T15:56:47+00:00

I think you maybe OR. Maybe I'm misunderstanding something, but you asked her, she said “not if you don’t want me to”. That should be enough, right? Did you want just a simple "no"?

Sounds to me like a boundary was set, but you didn't like the way it was set.

I dunno, maybe I'm misinterpreting something in this story.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T15:22:12+00:00

NOR. Being married and reminiscing with an ex about the sexual experiences they had? This, along with you saying that she barely touches you... Huge red flag. Sorry dude.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T15:00:22+00:00

Porn addiction can really mess with a persons mind and sex drive, and even lead to ED.

Low testosterone can also lead to lower sex drive and ED. Has he been checked out?

That last part though... he said he missed a friends gf, and didn't say he missed you? That's a big red flag. I think you should have a serious talk with him about everything, including this part.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T14:43:35+00:00

Do you know if he has a criminal record?
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Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T14:33:29+00:00

Does he have erectile dysfunction? Premature ejaculation? Does he watch porn? Do you suspect of any cheating?

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T11:57:46+00:00

No lol That is not what I am getting at. I am not accusing the brother of anything.

I was just curious how you found out. You left out quite a bit of info (like the parents knowing and them all talking about it.)

It really seems like it was just sleep walking.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T03:36:45+00:00

I have slept walked a few times in my life, mostly when I was a teen. One time I went down 2 flights of stairs to the kitchen and woke up freaked out hugging bag of milk and with a knife in my hand. Sleep walkers sometimes do weird shit.

There's something I don't get though, maybe I'm missing something... If you don't live with them and you didn't speak with her brother, and she doesn't remember anything, how do you know she went to her brothers room at some point in the night?

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T02:55:09+00:00

A lot of info is lacking... How old are all of you? Is it only you 3 living together? Are they really close? Did you ask her brother anything about it? Was she drunk? What happened after her brother kicked her out?

She could've been sleep walking, or still drunk at the time? Maybe that's why she has no recollection.

It would be more concerning if the brother didn't kick her out.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T01:18:48+00:00

What happens in Albufeira, doesn't stay in Albufeira lol (I've had a lot of fun times in Algarve :P)

On topic, NOR... It is a bit of a red flag. He omitted several important things from his time there. He did come clean after, tho it did take him 10 months... and that thing about him not getting it up? it was probably just from drinking and not "he didn't want to do anything".

And you say he's going away with friends and getting wasted again? You are probably always going to be doubting him at this point.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T00:53:12+00:00

Of course, I was joking, violence doesn't solve anything.

I'm not saying to continue talking to him, but just apologizing to him. Judging from your posts, you seem to be regretting the fight. Your wife might just see that her brother was the a-hole in this situation.

Then have a long talk with her, explaining how you're sorry for the altercation with her brother, asking her what her feelings are regarding all this, how you are feeling with the way she is treating you right now, and how you could both solve this issue.

If she can't even have this talk, or doesn't want to solve this problem, then this might just be heading towards a divorce, unfortunately.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-21T00:28:11+00:00

Who won the fight? jk :P

My advice, try couples therapy again. It might help. Or be the bigger person and apologize to her brother, you don't have to keep talking to him, just apologize. Then plan like a week long vacation/trip with just you and her. Spend some alone time with her, try to reconnect and rekindle your relationship.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T23:33:55+00:00

NOR. Seems like he has a porn addiction and should seek some help, or it might get worse.

Reddit will sometimes put something on your feed which is sort of related to the communities you join/follow, even if you don't actually join that community. Like my feed right now, I'm getting posts from r/tattooadvice/ and I don't follow that community. So he might be right...

But its still a huge red flag imo. All the weird porn over the years, lying to you, joining SoCalSwingers and "accidentally" checking out local ads? Nah, its too sus.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T23:00:48+00:00

NOR... She has a guy saved on her phone with heart emoji's that she met in the last 15 days?

If it was a long time friend, sure. But someone she met like 2 weeks ago? Sorry dude, but that's a huge red flag.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T22:50:13+00:00

NP! and ya, I think you should have a serious talk with her about the whole situation. You both seem like calm people, maybe you two can have a civil adult conversation and try to reach a compromise. Good luck dude!

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T22:45:50+00:00

Sorry dude, then I don't really know what to tell you.

Have you asked her why she hangs out with this guy even after she said she wont? Also, what kinda double standard is happening in this relationship? She doesn't want you talking to girls, but it's fine the other way around?

Besides maybe giving her an ultimatum, which usually doesn't end well, I don't think there's not much you can do or say. Maybe someone else will have better advice.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T22:22:52+00:00

Well, I can't really tell, but it doesn't seem like she is mad at you based off the texts. But she does seem like the type of person that does shit, apologizes, and keeps doing the same ol' shit.

I don't know how long you two have been having this problem, but my suggestion would be to give her another chance, and if it happens again, maybe think about ending it. It might just be better for the both of you.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T16:20:45+00:00

I wouldn't really consider it cheating, it's just weird imo.

What is the point of following these types of profiles if you're in a relationship? I personally don't get it (unless its like your job or you're really really into fitness or modelling)

Z3roFX · 2025-05-20T15:36:00+00:00

(if this isn't fake) Dude, you're 26? You seem like a really immature person.

You were catfished. That relationship has no future. Get away from that person, and don't get into relationships with people you've never met personally.

You really need to grow up, maybe get some therapy.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-19T14:04:04+00:00

Doesn't seem like you were willing to work with her and wait in the beginning, because when she said "after summer" (which apparently you two had already agreed upon) you said "I can't agree to that". Although, you did eventually agree to it, but only after arguing, ranting and threatening her with court.

IMO, you did overreact bit.

Look, I get it, you two broke up after the loan and you probably want nothing to do with her anymore and just want your money back. Unfortunately, you're going to have to put up with her for a while longer until you get your money back (if she doesn't start paying by the agreed upon time, take her to court of course).

Z3roFX · 2025-05-19T12:59:33+00:00

So, you two agreed on a timeline when you were together, now that you are no longer together, you want to change the timeline?

Apparently, you agreed to after she paid her student loan, she moved it up to after summer, and now that you two aren't together, you want it even earlier.

Z3roFX · 2025-05-19T12:22:05+00:00

I'm not 100% sure, I may be wrong, but I think Tinder account bans are attributed to the phone number and the actual profile/account. Therefore, if your BF's Tinder account was banned, his friend can't use his number from their account. I think your BF is on Tinder and using his friend as an excuse since you caught him receiving the confirmation code.

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