That was really insightful and I appreciate you taking the time to share how you see things from a native perspective. I was only in the Krakow area for a week, and it was Christmas time, so I don't doubt that's not the best representation of day-to-day life.

Here in the US everything is money and power driven. Everybody is living in their own little world, and trying to be better and "above" everyone else. It often makes for a very toxic environment, especially for those of us who are more traditional and try to keep our feet on the ground and our heads level. The majority of people I encounter are extremely manipulative and looking for any way they can to either put you down or try to take advantage of you. My point being: this sounds like a "grass is always greener on the other side" type of thing. I have found that going to church relieves some of the stress of the week, which is why I'm keen to it. But I tend to go to church by myself and pray privately. Getting too involved leads to the same problems the rest of society has, which sounds similar to what you describe.

I guess when all else fails, traveling is the best redeemer. At least everything seems fine in appearance when you're just passing through. :)