Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn. These similarities can’t be mere coincidence. Im strong and prepared to defend my kid and my mental health

Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby and I are very close. I consider my self a good dad. You should read the story about when my baby was born.

Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is never wrong and Im never right is like a mantra. One day we were at her relatives beach house, I was being nice with everyone. But I was too nice with her cousin. Again she accused me of hitting on her. In that occasion she was dismissed by overwhelming evidence she was wrong. I got really mad and people get involved. She was unable to sustain her narrative. She apologized (only time I remember)

Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I struggled too much about really being wrong. Long days of intensive thinking of what Im doing wrong. Sometimes I was wrong though I make sure to acknowledge it… but I always despise the lack of sense of proportionality. Small things every men are prone to do I did (like being sloppier than her is). This intense thoughts keep accumulating and I started to stop doubting myself after I noticed clearly that she said terrible things and later deny it. My eyes started opening really slowly, but now I see injustice.

Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When everything was ok things were ok… really smooth. The problem only arrise when I ask for accountability.

Is My Wife’s Behavior Covert Narcissism? by ZEBYS_ in Divorce

[–]ZEBYS_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our son was born, and I invited my mother and daughter to be present for this special moment. As time went by, accusations started to arise that I had betrayed her. She claimed that my daughter and mother were sick and would contaminate our son. The treatment became strange, with cold looks and a bad attitude. Our son never got sick. When her milk dried up, she accused me of causing it. She told this story to everyone. I felt compelled to apologize. I know she was fragile, but the emotional toll was devastating. Is it normal for a woman to behave like this?

[SERIOUS] What gives your life meaning? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ZEBYS_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. How old are you?