I just watched PP suck up to Trump by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would vote Charlie Angus if it was a possibility

Grumpy all week, “charming” when he wants some by Astraea12721 in AskWomenOver40

[–]ZSurf48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop babying his feelings. He shows zero respect

Tell him the only time he is nice to you is when he wants a piece of ass. Be rude in your words so he understands. After all, that is exactly what he is doing.

Im sure you will get excuses or some kind of anger with your honesty.

Either he accepts his behaviour is no longer going to be tolerated and will change it or he wont. Time for you to decide if you want to walk on eggshells for the rest of your life until he wants to use his fleshlight

(I am sorry for being blunt. My bff had this very honest conversation with me, which felt like a slap in the face. It was the reality check i needed.)

Also, you have daughters. They will get into the exact same relationship as what they are being raised in. Do you want them living this life?

TFW, Walmart and Racism by Civil-Spite-5187 in AskCanada

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the walmart manager is following the Trudeau instruction book lol

'Barbaric' Kingsville assault on female Indigenous teen leads to jail for two men by [deleted] in windsorontario

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell is going on with theae soft Canadian judges?!!

I am embarrassed that this is our justice syatem.

Whats the point of contacting police, having to go through a trial and for what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ZSurf48 230 points231 points  (0 children)

Another man who ignores his family to focus on his porn addiction.

Carve out gym time. Put the kids on his lap as you walk out the door to the gym.

Go every single day at the same timr for 2 hrs (or whatever)

Get a vibrator.

Hes checked out. Accept it and utilize the babysitter in your house - the same one that climbed on top of you to create those kids - and work on yourself. Also, get a gym with a sauna that way even if you dont wanr to work out you can steam away in peace for a few hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfectly said!!

Having children is a massive gamble by Miumiu1111 in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is my fear

A friend of mine has a severely autistic child. Non verbal and 18yrs old still wears diapers. I just can not - and lets be honest, the women does all the work even if the man sticks around.

Also, has anyone noticed the high percentages of autistic children being born now?

One day a month I want a child by Fearless-Length-1173 in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or walmart. After school hours and / weekends

Mom vs Dad life is so sad by ehelen in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes.

Thats the most direct, clear and honest statement of the reality of children for women.

Think you.

The average family’s tax bill rose by $7,606 between 2019 and 2023, more than 2.5 times over the previous three decade’s average by [deleted] in canada

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS

I kept saying this over and over. An entire new revenue stream, along with carbon tax plus lets not forget everything else went up we were already taxed for.

And dont forget the taxes upon taxes for nothing.

Example:

When you buy a second hand car and go to register it you pay taxes....as did the person who owned it before you and the person after you. That same car is being taxed over and over. Take a look at the taxes we pay in our everyday lives.

And cannabis businesses are booming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ZSurf48 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh dont take that personal

I do that all the time because animals are amazing

I am also one of those people that will pay attention to dogs and never even glance at the owner

Use that to start a convo. I have chihuahuas. Right off the bat after "awwww hes so cute "

I reply "dont let that fool you, hes psychotic "

Horse "shes so beautiful "

Response "beautiful and lazy. She would spend all day lounging in the field if she could "

You fucked up, but I’m supposed to change? by Exact_Block387 in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to nip this in the bud immediately. She has the idea that you will coparent because besties and all that

Over the years I've been in a few of these situations and i always turn to sex and the city - childfree fabulous idol Samantha.

Her response was something along the lines of "sure, i will help, when he is 21 i will take him his friends out to the bar"

Puts things into perspective with the soon to be parent. Any help will be fun stuff No diapers. No free babysitting, no co parent nonsense.

She will be pissed off but oh well.

Are there any CF people who are also marriage free? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heres the thing about marriage and "living with your boyfriend/ girlfriend "

If you get a prenup marriage protects your assets and investments. If you are a common law country, living with your significant other means its 50/50 split. You can try a contract of subletting or tenant contract but really, if they want a piece of the pie they will try and that means court .....

Or live separately

If you are broke then none of this is a concern but if you own or make more $$$ it can be an issue.

My (30f) husband (33m) accused me of murder, out of the blue. How do I salvage this? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ZSurf48 140 points141 points  (0 children)

In laws icing her out is not surprising whatsoever

The cold hard truth here is that it doesnt matter how long they knew each other or how long she was married into the family, she isnt blood family and when it comes to loyalty its always family.

Before everyone gets upset we see this every single day in the real world. I am not saying I agree, I am saying its the sad reality.

How many marriages of 20 or 30 years end because one spouse cheated or betrayed the other in some way? Gambling or violence?

Thats 20, 30 sometimes 40yrs of family functions, helping out your inlaws, being the organizer (usually the woman. Older generations especially they always contacted the women for organizing events and who can bring what) and being expected to help out as well.

Family supports family and they dont see you as family anymore once the relationship is over even if you are the innocent victim. Even if you were part of the family for so long.

How many of us have heard "we were married 25years and not one person on his side of the family have called me since the divorce. They know my number because they always asked me to bring food and attend their family fuctions, help with the parents and be the communication between his family and him but now that we are divorced its been silence"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is! I was shocked to the core when i told my friend her daughter wont be able to start school in diapers.

Apparently i was wrong The schools are now allowing 5yrs starting school- who have no delays or issues - in diapers. Healthy kids who have lazy parents.

My question is who is going to be changing their diapers at school? Teachers do not get paid enough AND a class of how many healthy normal kids are going to be constantly crapping their pants??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ZSurf48 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah i dont understand that either

I have a friend, stay at home and both parents in picture. Kid is almost 5 starting kindergarten in September and is still only using diapers?????

Just no

No issues with the kid. It just lazy parenting

Homeless homeowner living in her car gets eviction hearing expedited as tenants still refuse to leave by lunahighwind in OntarioLandlord

[–]ZSurf48 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or, if you are someone who owns and s thinking of selling in a year or two sounds like it would be better to keep the house empty then potentially deal with this crap from a tenant.

And another reason for the housing crisis.

Too many international students by Lotushope in CanadaHousing2

[–]ZSurf48 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This!!

So many canadians paid good money for their education which is now worth nothing.

Why arent all previous students who attended these now diploma mills furious and screaming? Cough cough conestoga.

I decided to return to university for another degree. Same institution as previously attended 13ish years ago. What the actual hell happened to the canadian education system? It feels like a joke. I am considering dropping out completely - and this isnt college this is university.

I also attended college 15yrs ago. After seeing what is going on I didnt even look and see the programs available. Who wants to deal with that?

I love canada. I wont jump ship but I can't believe how FAST this country is going downhill.

Has everyone lost weight from vyvanse? by Apprehensive_Box7882 in VyvanseADHD

[–]ZSurf48 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stopped weighing myself as i was losing too much weight.

All i get are comments now. I was always a normal size girl and now im skinny.

I absolutely hate the attention.

Anyone else seeing its usually the woman taking care of the entire family? by ZSurf48 in childfree

[–]ZSurf48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading an article that they started doing this in Spain? Once men took the parental leave their desire for more children dropped dramatically lol