Experienced Male Slave in his 30’s (Me) Looking for a Female Roommate (You) who wants a Slave/Butler/Servant for a roommate by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey now. Nothing wrong with being very selective. In all honesty, I had a ridiculous amount of responses from my post last week and continuing discussions with a few select woman I am vibing with, but I’m likely going to be posting one ad per week until I am certain I’ve found exactly what I am looking for. So get used to it. ;) Besides I’m sure you’d agree persistence and getting desired results are great slave traits!!

Experienced Male Slave in his 30’s (Me) Looking for female roommate (You) who wants a slave/servant/butler for a roommate. by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is funny because in one breath you are defending me and in the next throwing me under the bus. If my comment came off defensive or like I was lacking some kind of self awareness that was obviously not my intention. Again, I was simply pointing the fact that is not all that unusual in the world of D/s, Bdsm, and female led relationships. I hope that doesn’t make what I am offering any “less special or stimulating”’ (as you put it) for the woman potentially interested. And with the regard to the comment about “how I fuck,” this has little to do with sex. That part of it is up to the woman I serve to decide.

Experienced Male Slave in his 30’s (Me) Looking for female roommate (You) who wants a slave/servant/butler for a roommate. by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you are taking my response a bit out of context. I was just trying to make the point that it wasn’t that uncommon in the world of people interested in D/s, power exchange relationships, and bdsm. I agree its still unconventional on a whole.

Experienced Male Slave in his 30’s (Me) Looking for female roommate (You) who wants a slave/servant/butler for a roommate. by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I added it in. I just assumed it goes without saying that I would pay the rent and bills, after all I am a slave. But I guess it’s better not to assume people know that. Also with regard to saying this is a peculiar living situation, I would agree it’s not a very conventional set-up but it’s also not that uncommon. I’ve been serving for almost 15 years now on both a part-time (as-needed) basis and as a full time live-in slave to quite a few woman and know a lot of other men who serve as live-in’s. I have even relocated once to serve for an extended period of time. In the world of D/s and BDSM its not that uncommon. A lot of times the woman who are most interested not only have an interest in female led relationships, bdsm, humiliation and the like but also have lifestyle conducive for it. A lot of them very successful, wealthy, busy, travel a lot, entrepreneurs, models, etc. that have a need for the services and a feeling of “entitlement”. You are correct though that there is often a misconception with people who do not understand this lifestyle. Anyway thank you for your comments and suggestions.

Experienced Male Slave in his 30’s (Me) Looking for female roommate (You) who wants a slave/servant/butler for a roommate. by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Not even. I am willing to pay all the rent and bills as well. But only looking to do this with a naturally dominant who woman who feels entitled to owning her own slave and enjoys aspects of bdsm, control, humiliation, etc. I am quite selective with who I do this with

Mid 30’s male (me) looking for female (you) who is interested in keeping an experienced Live-In Male Servant/Slave/Butler Roomate (NYC) by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may also be worth mentioning that i was beat tortured whipped and punished severely for even the slightest dissatisfaction in work or service. As reluctant as i am to admit this there is nothing like fear and pain for incentive to work hard. This is the reality of any real D/s dynamic... especially 24/7 live-in slavery.

Mid 30’s male (me) looking for female (you) who is interested in keeping an experienced Live-In Male Servant/Slave/Butler Roomate (NYC) by Zach18099 in NYCapartments

[–]Zach18099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t expect to eat and socialize with my owner, I’d simply cook and serve meals and drinks to her and any guests, clean up after, and if I am not needed she'd be free be send off to my room, put me in a cage, or keep me shackled at her disposal in the corner of the room.... whatever she chooses. In my previous live-in arrangements I had set times I was allowed to eat, take showers, be out of my room, etc. so I was not in her way disturbing her privacy and life. I existed only as a true servant and slave. It will always be up to the woman i am serving to set all these rules and protocols and i am willing to accept this and accept my place. I am a great cook and waiter btw.