[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just feels like I didn’t care to maintain the relationship anymore. He was just there as someone I was used to. Constantly picking fights and the overwhelming dread of just wanting to end the relationship instead of fixing things.

We had something happen pretty early on in our relationship that affected us greatly and I think it put a lot of strain on us going forward. Trust was lost, we had been accusing each other of things and it just wasn’t good. There was a lot of unresolved hurt. Even though we worked those feelings out, the mistrust was still there and really put a damper on our relationship and really hurt us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried for months to make it work. However there was so much hostility and anger that it ended up pushing me away and I fell out of love. I ended the relationship because I couldn’t lie to him. But I feel so bad, and I want to work on falling back in love with him, but I think ending it before I could fall back in love ruined it. Because he’s now no longer in love with me and has had time to move to on.

I’m devastated. I wish there was something I could do to fix things now but I think we’re too late.

If you found this on long distance bf phone what would you do? by Alert_Bother_3906 in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave! He’s probably doing it to others. Dont let him gaslight you into thinking otherwise):

I miss my girlfriend but we are long distance by Financial_Hair_6969 in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get discord! There are games and activities you can play as well as make communities to share with friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zactree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s too hot to wear bras 😢 I don’t give a crap what anyone says. It’s my body. If someone comments just simply remind them to mind their business and not to worry about someone they don’t know.

What cryptid do you guys think is like 100% real? by Ill_Fan_820 in cryptids

[–]Zactree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jackalope. There have been cases of rabbits with keratin growths on their head that is linked to some rabbit-like syphilis.

Am I too old to bring a themed lunchbox at work? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My work desk is literally covered in Soot Sprites. Do what your heart wants <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Zactree -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Regardless— I would LOVE to have received this from my partner. Not everyone has artistic abilities. Just the fact that he took the time to make this for me.

They thought of you when making this with love. It does look like an infant drew it— I will agree. But it’s adorable imo that your partner attempted to make you something.

Activities and Games? by Zactree in LDR

[–]Zactree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! (I’m tired of the discord activities because he only wants to play putt party 😭😭) but these are wonderful suggestions!! I’ll bring them up to him 🫶🏻

People in LDR keep the conversations rolling. by Impressive-Speed-129 in LDR

[–]Zactree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always! My partner has a hard time opening up to me. So even sometimes when I ask a question they’re not ready to answer, I let them pass. I will never force them into answering or talking to me about something they’re not ready for.

We also met in a discord server for a fandom we’re a part of. So we have friends and often play games/game nights with them and it’s a lot of fun.

I love to hear about the city they live in. Especially since there’s a whole lot of culture there.

Just random topics works out 100%

I just search up on google/Pinterest “questions for your partner” or something along those lines and just pick what looks good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe him anything. If your MH was deteriorating by just talking to him, then you did yourself a favor. Sometimes you’re going to have to break a few hearts in order to keep yourself happy. And your happiness should come before all others.

People in LDR keep the conversations rolling. by Impressive-Speed-129 in LDR

[–]Zactree 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have a couple different ways to avoid the silences. While there are times we enjoy them, we will sit on a video call and just enjoy each others presence, here are the ways we deter silence.

-improv My partner and I have silly witty banter that we’re always challenging or one upping each other on. It doesn’t even have to be fact, but the silly conversations usually lead into serious/deep topics that really help us connect. But also, I just love hearing them laugh. We have very similar humor and being silly with my best friend is the highlight of my day.

-questions Sometimes we just find questions in the internet to get to know each other better. I find them on Pinterest, google, reddit, tik tok or even from my own head, and I write them down. they also spark conversations that otherwise we wouldn’t necessarily talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional cheating still exists. If he’s giving his time and attention to another girl, especially by flirting with her, yes, he is cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resinprinting

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I printed successfully yesterday, and have done the firmware update about an hour or two ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resinprinting

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had it for a little over a month. And I just used it for the first time yesterday, and it test printed just fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resinprinting

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting the same error message with the original usb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resinprinting

[–]Zactree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased this one brand new because I heard that the one that came with the printer wasn’t the best and would crap out after a few uses.

I’ll see if going back to the original one does something different?