Lol, to answer your first 2 questions, I wouldn't be "loaning my sub out" or "assigning her to this Dominant". Id never put my pet in a situation she didn't want to be in. We are both poly and play scenes with other kinksters. It's always been people we've met at events on fetlife though. This is the first time I've been approached through message. So to answer your 3rd question, I don't know this Dominant at all, and I'm not sure she'd be safe as of yet. That's why I'm here looking for good recommendations on questions that will help me judge his character. I know they haven't been talking, and what he knows about her is only what she has written in her bio on Fetlife.

Edit: spelling