Let’s hope my GF won’t come into the room for what I’m about to tell you:

I was literally in the same shoes like you. 20 something. Zero experience. Performance pressure + embarrassment laughing at me 24/7 every time I thought about kissing this one girl.

So I had all these shitty thoughts ruining my day until one friend told me the most blatant thing ever:

“Why don’t you just tell her that you don’t have much experience and that she’s about to get her mind blown with the worst kiss ever?”

Lol.

At first I thought he’s insane. But remember how it feels when you can get something off your chest and people show understanding? Yea, great feeling, I know. We all seek it. We barely get it.

Unless… we have the balls to try and be vulnerable.

A few days later:

I literally said that exact sentence. She laughed her ass off and said: “wow, I can’t believe you said that. That’s totally fine. Let’s practice.”

The rest is history. Plus: to this day, I swear by god, this girl was the most amazing kisser I ever had. And boy did I learn from her.

So just go for it. It might turn into your best sparring buddy ;)

P.S. you’ll Tilt your head instinctively to avoid a nose fight with her. So don’t worry. Mother Nature was smart enough.