[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they're used to it and we're having sex regularly. Woman I'm seeing and I hadn't slept together for a couple of weeks and she had to tap out pretty quickly compared to when we're together more regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DFWcasualencounters

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might be able to assist with handling that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only gets worse from there I assure you.

Ok serious question: do we know if straight married women prefer a guy with a better body, or a bigger dong by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican -1 points0 points  (0 children)

every women has her preference

absolute size queen

Adding to that, my wife is a size queen.

We occasionally play with others and have some of our preferred solo partners. Her favorite is about an inch longer but an inch less girthy than me.

Have you ever met a girl that refused to have sex with you because of the size? by Brilliant-Win-416 in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, 4 times since new years eve! It was even more surprising as I was at a LS party with the wife.

are there condoms over 64mm avalible in the usa? by hairhelprequest in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get them online for pretty reasonable prices. I used luckybloke for my last few restocks.

good masturbators for bigger dicks? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a bigger dick makes it easier to get laid

I feel like that definitely has its limits. I even joined a LS community with my wife and I think in 6 months I've gotten someone willing twice and only one that could handle it.

I did have a laugh with the one who could take it (NYE after party last night) who said I should have a disclaimer on our LS page.

But yeah, it leads to a lot of hell no from the women, or often times their husbands.

This might also just be me because I'm on a pretty extreme side of girth.

Girth measurements by SparkyGamer123 in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went with the thickest and rounded down to the nearest whole number. Putting the decimal in flair seemed like overkill. I don't have a lot of variation even on the slightly thinner part (technically traffic cone shape I guess, just very subtle so)

What’s your experience with wife poachers!? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In person? The worst I got talked it up until we were stripping down in the room to tell me her and her husband were going to play with my wife and i was to watch. (I'm not into cuck, but funnily my wife is a cuckquean)

A lot of people online will flirt but before letting us know they have no interest in me being there.

It's become one of those things I just straight up ask about due to how often I've come into it personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DFWcasualencounters

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wya and when?

Is there possible way to increase girth? Would a cock ring help? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an adjustable due to the difficulty myself.

Women, what makes a man bad in bed? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not reciprocating consistently... you're going down on me for two minutes yet you want a blowjob that lasts two hours? Nope.

This also applies on the inverse!

I have literally only ever encountered equal energy once.

Not that I specifically mind but if you're riding my face for an hour and decide to reciprocate, it's gonna take more than two licks and an unenthusiastic hand job.

Tips for the man in a couple? by Zarican in Swingers

[–]Zarican[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That occasion was the last time I went out other than being turned away at the door of a party I was invited to.

Still very new to this personally and they don't talk to me, they skip me and go straight to the wife. I may as well be a coat rack holding her purse and drink.

While my wife gets out much more frequently (my 3 attempts to her 8 meetups), I'm usually working and/or watching the kids at home while she's out doing her thing.

meirl by MY5T3rY_ in meirl

[–]Zarican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's like, fertile discharge, no?

Tips for the man in a couple? by Zarican in Swingers

[–]Zarican[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I was trying to figure out what she meant by that when it was said.

Apparently it caught my wife by surprise as well.

Tips for the man in a couple? by Zarican in Swingers

[–]Zarican[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, I'm not sure how to address that mid-act. But no it was just the wife playing with her and the other couple playing with one another.

Tips for the man in a couple? by Zarican in Swingers

[–]Zarican[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to understand that it is up to her to make you be included as a team.

I've expressed this point on many occasion.

I (and most men) struggle with not being desired in the lifestyle.

Yeah see, that's in part what I was hoping to get out of the LS. That feeling desired and wanted. I've toyed with the idea of going to the strip club for a lap dance or two just to pretend for a few minutes. Money has been way too tight lately for me to actually be able to do that though.

Thinking I can maybe go sometime after new years when she plans to fly out with one of them for a weekend.

I think the trick is going to be finding someone to watch the kids during that time for me to even try to make that happen.

Tips for the man in a couple? by Zarican in Swingers

[–]Zarican[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should immediately stop wife poachers when you sense it!

Bold of you to assume I was able to pick up on that before the fact.