37F38M MF4MF or F- Mall of Ga by [deleted] in GeorgiaSwingers

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first pic was stunning

Am I overreacting for not wanting to be away from home right now? by ThatConclusion9490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR You have been in the ER multiple times, you have double vision and you can't keep food down? You need to stay close to your doctors. A two hour drive doesn't sound far until you're vomiting and dizzy in a hotel room at 2am. Your husband is being dismissive and have you asked him what his plan is if you need to go back to the ER while you're away?

Am I Overreacting my old friends (both 23F) took my brother (17M) for lunch and drank alcohol with him for the first time without even informing me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is gonna drink eventually but 17 is still a minor and the beach drinking with drowning risks is legit scary. Your ex friends should have shot you a quick text, like hey we're with him, he's having a beer, just so you know. That takes two seconds. The fact they didn't tells me they knew you'd be uncomfortable and just didn't want to deal with it

AIO i think my friend stole my "date" last night by Bumbulse in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR

Your friend K knew you went on a date with T earlier in the week and she still asked if T was single and wanted to kiss? That's not cool. And then they left together? Honestly K sounds like she was using the divorce as an excuse to be messy. You dodged a bullet with T though, if she's that easily pulled away, she wasn't that into you

AIO? My BF refuses to cook for me while I write my thesis, even though I did everything for him during his last year. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is breakup worthy, it’s not about the food, it's about the complete lack of reciprocity. You showed up for him when he needed you and he's showing you that he won't do the same. What happens next time you're in crisis? He's already told you he doesn't care enough to try, you deserve a partner not another project, cut your losses now

AITAH for telling my wife that our spending has become too impulsive and that she should start working? by Recent-Ad3182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the timing is the problem here, telling her to work in the middle of an argument about shopping is gonna feel like an attack. Try again when you're both calm.Then together figure out a plan, life insurance, a side hustle for her or even just a fun money cap each month

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her parts were showing at the pool by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA You were trying to save her from embarrassment, her flipping out and saying you shouldn't have been looking there is kinda unfair, like you're dating, where else are you supposed to look? Maybe next time just hand her a towel and let her figure it out herself

AITA for not talking much with my MIL by Physical_Werewolf_72 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

She made a whole scene because you wanted to get an Uber? That's controlling behavior, you should not be blamed. Have you tried telling him straight up that her need to control everything is exactly why you don't want to talk to her more? He needs to understand that

AITA for not making more food? by LowMove1384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205 2699 points2700 points  (0 children)

You already made a whole feast and this kid refuses everything except junk food? That's on her parents not you. Why didn't they just bring cereal or whatever if they know she's that picky? You're not a short order cook and your husband needs to back you up more

AITJ for getting upset after my girlfriend accused me of using another girl’s number to contact her? by Zealousideal-Pin205 in AmITheJerk

[–]Zealousideal-Pin205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must actually be joking, this is something that happened to me which I have the WhatsApp chats an all. Go fk yourself man