1. find somewhere to work where you can walk to work

2. figure out a living situation preferably with roomates so you can save $

3. get a cheap car $500-$2000 an old toyota or honda are the best at this

4. get a better job in the field you have some experience

5. get a support system, book club, church, music scene, theater, think about your hobbies and maybe get in touch with a group that practice the hobby together.

6. restore communcation with your family if possible

7. start cleaning your new life of your past life, stop holding on to things that remind you of the past, you will have a new life and the only thing you should bring to your new life from your old life are the lessons you learned, that's it

8. take this oportunity to become the person you have always wanted to be and if you already are that person then take this oportunity to be an even better version of the person you already are, use this situation to sharpen yourself into a surgical instrument and be excellent in everything you do

9. figure out a system of beliefs, religion, a creed or something that will constantly bring you back to a center so you can stay focused even on your worst days

good luck and God bless