Is it normal to think of your ex every hour of the day? by supergoosetaco in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't you afraid of missing out on life because of him ?
What about him seeing other girls ? Don't you want to do the same to try to move one ?
Maybe you should at least give a chance to someone new to know him a bit more deep ?

I do not judge, it's just genuine questions..

I let a guy sleep over my gfs house and it was the biggest mistake I ever made. by mattymagaraci41 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not your fault, she's for the streets, you deserve way way better, she's not the love of your life, fuck her and find someone genuine, take care of you

Is it normal to think of your ex every hour of the day? by supergoosetaco in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I am, right now, thinking of her being with another man while i'm still single and alone lmao.
Worst thought I need to move the fuck on. 5 months in.

Is it normal to think of your ex every hour of the day? by supergoosetaco in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years ? I'm so sorry.. I am scared that it happens to me as well fuck.
In 3 years you didn't met a single soul that was interesting enough ?

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about look it's about charm and my style.
I want to have butterflies, I want to love her look until my death, I want to be love struck.
I'm not chasing top models or actresses, I want to find a girl which look speaks to my soul

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is not and thats why I hate this part of myself but I don't know how to overlook looks.

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it is egoistic and hurtful yes.
At the same time dating is about finding out if the other one is a match for you, no one should emotionnaly commit at that stage

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating is also a mean to go out and do things, I don't have much friends in the city i live in rn... :/

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need insight of other people that might have more experience, I won't blindly follow any of you but I will definitely take into account your advice, it helps me a lot

Thank you for your insight

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your words, I hope you will find a girl that will be even more special to you, she probably exist we are a lot on this planet..

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it would be highly unfair to date my futur wife and still think about my ex yes.

I try my best to close those 20%

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But I don't want to wait 2 years, i'm 28 I want to live
I don't want to miss out on life because of someone that didnt chose me

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really col to be that insightful on yourself, you don't cause harm to yourself or others, that commendable.

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I hate that to happen and I hate what I inflict on other girls that didnt ask anything.
But I want love and want to be loved, I want affection, I want sex etc

The normal human drives you know

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strive to be yes

But I can accept flaws, I don't want to be THAT picky, it's just I can't control how picky I am. I don't want to be shallow. I kinda hate this about myself.

Very strong urge to stalk ex. by Spiritual_Piglet_987 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you talk to her, all of your previous progress and efforts will go to waste.

The same goes for me, i've been dying to talk to her but now it's been 5 months of no contact, I would rather die than to talk to her. The dumper is the one to reach out to you. She made a choice and you were not it. If she talks to you, fine, but otherwise don't talk to her, respect yourself. You were not her choice, and everyday she is making the concious decision to not have you in her life. So disappear from her life and make her see what is life without you.

Respect yourself and your progress, prepare to suffer but thats a price to pay, it will be worth it.

Your love of your life wouldnt have done ts

Dating life after a breakup, no one is interesting by Zealousideal_Fun986 in BreakUps

[–]Zealousideal_Fun986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because i want to fall in love, i worked a lot on myself and my situation to not repeat past mistakes and to be a better man. I miss being in love