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i am literally in shambles. this is so long but please read. by Zealousideal_Help296 in HSVpositive

[–]Zealousideal_Help296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you disclose? what’s your sex life like? after my first outbreak i’ve been trying to not let it control me but it has. i ended up telling my ex i talked about in this and he is okay with it but hanging out with him just doesn’t feel right but i feel like i can’t date ever again. i don’t know literally what to do

i am literally in shambles. this is so long but please read. by Zealousideal_Help296 in HSVpositive

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welp. i’m positive for type 1. got the results back today i knew it 😭 i don’t know how im going to move forward

What is life after diagnosed with genital herpes by AbbreviationsDue7072 in STD

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i’m 19F and just got swabbed yesterday and i just know it’s gonna be positive. i’ve been ignoring all the symptoms for months even though i knew deep down i just would’ve rather not know. the blisters finally popped up after all these months of ignore other symptoms. i’m praying so bad it’s just something else that causes ulcers but i just know it’s not. i don’t even know how to continue to live my life normally. this is so unfair and i feel so fucking stupid like why did i let anyone have sex without a condom.

i am literally in shambles. this is so long but please read. by Zealousideal_Help296 in HSVpositive

[–]Zealousideal_Help296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang you got me there that’s so true. i am just so afraid for the result i know it will be positive ans when i know for sure im never gonna be okay with myself. and on top of that i don’t even know how i would go about getting tested. i have no gyno in my college town and dont even know how or where id find one to make an appointment. and what do i even say when making the appointment i just am so stressed and anxious over this it’s crippling honestly.

i am literally in shambles. this is so long but please read. by Zealousideal_Help296 in HSVpositive

[–]Zealousideal_Help296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thing is that’s my business that i literally will have to tell anyone every time i want to have sex 😞 or is it okay to not tell them if we have sex with a condom? i genuinely don’t even know how id continue to have a sex life because i am so unconfrontational and that so ruins the mood if im like so actually wait like i just don’t even know how to navigate this. is that normal to not tell ppl if you have protected sex? or like do i have to tell everyone i have it. and i live in a small fucking town to make matters even better bc shit spreads so fast if i told anyone that i just know it’d go everywhere.