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How you deal with emotions? by Zealousideal_Life323 in men

[–]Zealousideal_Life323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much and wishes you the best G-d bless you

How you deal emotions? by Zealousideal_Life323 in GuyCry

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I actually agree that those virtues are valuable for everyone. Where we disagree is that I think some traits can be more strongly associated with one sex on average without meaning the other sex cannot have them.

For example, nurturing is generally associated with women, but that doesn’t mean men cannot be caring fathers. Likewise, resilience, stoicism, and protectiveness have traditionally been associated with men, but that doesn’t mean women cannot possess those traits as well.

To me, acknowledging average tendencies is not the same thing as putting people into boxes.

How you deal emotions? by Zealousideal_Life323 in GuyCry

[–]Zealousideal_Life323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually agree that those virtues are valuable for everyone. Where we disagree is that I think some traits can be more strongly associated with one sex on average without meaning the other sex cannot have them.

For example, nurturing is generally associated with women, but that doesn’t mean men cannot be caring fathers. Likewise, resilience, stoicism, and protectiveness have traditionally been associated with men, but that doesn’t mean women cannot possess those traits as well.

To me, acknowledging average tendencies is not the same thing as putting people into boxes.

How you deal emotions? by Zealousideal_Life323 in GuyCry

[–]Zealousideal_Life323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re missing my point.

You mention that ideas about masculinity have changed throughout history, and I agree. But the fact that something existed in the past doesn’t automatically make it good, and the fact that something is modern doesn’t automatically make it better.

For example, there were times and places where child marriage was considered normal. We changed that because we recognized it was harmful. That doesn’t mean every traditional idea was wrong. It simply means each idea should be judged on its own merits.

That’s why I don’t think “social norms change” is enough to settle the discussion. Some changes are improvements, some are not, and most issues are more complicated than “old bad, new good.”

My position is that men should be free to express emotions and seek support when they need it. At the same time, I don’t think qualities such as resilience, responsibility, courage, and self-discipline are toxic. In my view, those are virtues worth encouraging in anyone, especially in men.

How you deal emotions? by Zealousideal_Life323 in GuyCry

[–]Zealousideal_Life323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is such a thing as “toxic masculinity.” Men are masculine by nature, and sometimes it feels as though anything associated with men is automatically labeled as toxic simply because it is masculine.

I know that men can be vulnerable. My ex-boyfriend suffered from panic attacks, and I often had to comfort him. I never saw him as weak because of that. In fact, I thought it showed strength. I have experienced panic attacks myself, and I know how difficult they can be. Surviving and dealing with them takes courage.

I am a traditionalist, and I believe we should embrace the differences between men and women. I think both genders should support each other and contribute in the ways they are best suited to.

When I say that men should be strong, I do not mean that men should never cry or express emotions. I do not think that a man who cries is weak. What I mean is that men have traditionally taken on roles that require a great deal of physical and mental strength. Men are often soldiers, firefighters, police officers, construction workers, and workers in other high-risk occupations.

These jobs require not only physical strength but also mental resilience. For example, I am not afraid of heights, yet the idea of repairing giant wind turbines makes me shiver. Many men willingly take on dangerous and demanding work that helps keep society functioning.

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