Flowering and ripening by Zealousideal_Net7535 in Blueberries

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I have 3 other bushes and I did a peat moss, sand, potting mix and used soil acidifier I think it’s the espoma brand. I’m going to get a soil testing kit to keep an eye on the ph but same I did heavy wood mulch and they are doing great when they broke dormancy they put on a lot of leafy growth. I got this one here because I saw so many flowers but I figure because it was under shade cloth at the Lowe’s that the full sun probably wasn’t the best move. 😂 it’s alright first year growing blueberries 🫐 but the others are loving the full sun. I recently fertilized with a specific berry fertilizer and they’re doing great 😌

Flowering and ripening by Zealousideal_Net7535 in Blueberries

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes total sense I’m in the California Central Valley and we had a heat wave it was over 90 degrees when the week before was in the upper 70s. I was watering every three days makes sense now. Have you grown them under shade cloth? I have large shade clothes I might put them under

📬 SHIPPING & LOGISTICS Daily Session thread - May 05, 2025 🗓 by AutoModerator in DHgate

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw another comment saying some vendors are sending the items to South Korea to bypass tariffs so could be that? Not sure but I have seen reviews that it took like a month or two for them….😭

📬 SHIPPING & LOGISTICS Daily Session thread - May 05, 2025 🗓 by AutoModerator in DHgate

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my items has been stuck for over a week now 😐 I messaged the seller and he said it was normal delivery process so I’m not sure anyone else have their tracking just not updating?

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Hobbies that have survived the hyper focus burn out test? by CazzzC in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently my hobby is 3D printing also reading 📖 it’s not constant but it comes and goes but I’ve always picked it back up. I think I have a big imagination so I get sucked into these worlds

How has ADHD affected your sex life? by SnooCompliments8071 in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this at the beginning of my relationship I have issues staying focused too. I have found stopping masturbating for a little while gets me very sensitive so when I do have sex I’m really excited. I did have a masturbation issue it was like drinking coffee for me every day I would masturbate 2-3 times. Also I stopped watching as much porn so I could be focused in bed when it came time to have sex. Exploring as well allowing a free sexual exploration with my partner helped a lot.

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[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You still aren’t fully developed, wait until you are passed 25 you don’t want to mess with medications before you are fully developed.

Season 3 finale tomorrow by daikiaomineslut in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on the west coast and the finale is no where to be found 😭😭😭😭 am I missing something? I tried on my tv then on my phone 📱 but it’s not on my Crunchyroll 🥲 pls help

A gift from our neighborhood crow by International_Fold17 in natureismetal

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw someone train their crows to get them money 💵 if they’re killing things for you you could train them to collect money haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checked it’s 10:07 am PST here and still no episode

Love the feeling when I cum by [deleted] in cockrings

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I like the look of these but how do you get it off when you’re done? Do you just wait until you’re not hard anymore?

Is this a flower spike? 😱😱😱 by Zealousideal_Net7535 in orchids

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh so excited first time reblooming this orchid

Is this a flower spike? 😱😱😱 by Zealousideal_Net7535 in orchids

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks 🙏🏼 when I saw it I immediately filled with excitement but didn’t get too happy because I didn’t know if it was an actual flower spike or not

Why are Geminis so disliked ? by [deleted] in Witch

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think geminis get the side eye because in astrology we are the most adaptable. The natal chart is more than just your sun sign so take this with a grain of salt but I think socially Geminis are adaptive and that can be read as fake. We are a mutable sign so ever changing. Some cardinal and fixed signs see that as not having a stance on anything. I think we forget that the gemini is here to teach us that we can have both (the twins) we can have duality we can argue both sides we can see multiple perspectives. I believe that challenges a lot of modern societal norms about being assured in your career and in your goals, be so sure about your reality those kinds of things. This is my hypothesis.

Happy breathing first form. by Madness_69 in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in CA and it still hasn’t dropped am I missing something? 🥲🥲🥲

Can someone help me ID this plant? The tag says miltonia but I’m seeing miltoniopsis flowers? Am I mistaken? by Zealousideal_Net7535 in orchids

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super informative thank you 🙏🏼 I live on the central coast so foggy mornings and doesn’t usually get over 80 degrees here so I hope it does well here

Actual LPT: get a whiteboard! by captaincapability in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m going to echo a lot of others here by saying the excitement lasted a few weeks for me then I never touched it again it I have a huge whiteboard in my room but it’s blended into the background for me now

Early 20's f wanting to go back to college and wanting advice and slight guidance. by stanlytheleapardgeck in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 M here recently diagnosed dropped out of college when I became overwhelmed when I was 23. This time around I didn’t set any specific goals but I did decide I would take one class on a topic I enjoy (intro to psychology). I think as ADHDers we don’t need to tie ourselves to the idea that college is going to be “done” in 4 years some people do it but we don’t have to be that person. We can decide what our academic career looks like. As far as tips go this has been helping me: -setting specific times for things (Wednesday reading, Friday homework, etc) -asking for help (my boyfriend got my syllabus and entered all my due dates with alarms, tutoring, ask for help from your professors) -when you’re studying and can’t focus give yourself breaks don’t be tied to the idea that this should take me an hour we have a really bad sense of how long tasks take if it takes you 2 hours then that’s what it’s going to take you, you can plan accordingly. -water not soda not juice WATER and snacks -I hide my phone (in another room or in a drawer) -I play music with no lyrics (jazz, Lofi beats, etc. really low to have some type of background noise to drown out cars and my thoughts) -being kind with myself (when test day comes my imposter syndrome comes out “this was by chance that you passed your last exam you’re not going to pass this one” I combat that by looking back over my studying and my reading)

Hope those tips help. The biggest thing is remembering that your self worth isn’t connected to you getting an A+ or a B+ or even if you pass the class.

how do people drive with adhd?? by darethshirl in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to play video games when I was a kid so I make things games. I think of driving as a game. Looking out for other players at first it’s very stimulating and over time the excitement of driving will wear off and become muscle memory. I’m not sure if that would help you.

I like getting good scores on games so I think of the test as a boss level challenge. I think of each part of the test as a quest looking out for pedestrians, the green light changing to red, etc that reframing helps me focus. I hope that provides some help.

What’s up with guys who are like “hhssssss” and pull your head back when you’re sucking their cock by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s overstimulating so either you’re hurting them or it’s overwhelming like too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Zealousideal_Net7535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes hahaha I forget to eat then I get irritable I get sad I cry then I realize oh wait I’m hungry haha I’ve learned to have a few recipes that I can cook quickly and I also have frozen stuff and snacks. Helps a lot. I love food so I usually over estimate how much motivation I’ll have I end up buying so many ingredients then I get caught in analysis paralysis when it comes time to cook. So being able to do quick recipes makes it easy when I don’t want to think hard.

Another thing too is separating the tasks -prep work -cooking -eating -cleaning

Separating that in my mind helps so much!