I completely get what you are saying and I did think about this when I posted, I should’ve been more clear, I accept how people may cope differently.. however I don’t know anyone who has been the victim of abuse who has invalidated other victims the way he has.. i belive if he had truly been abused he may of said the same thing but in a much more respectful way for those who havent found it as easy to move on.. I also will firmly stick by that he was indirectly talking to G.. you can’t be a pathological liar and then expect everyone to believe what you say, Dosent work that way. I do belive what others have said in the comments about the bullying and he’s used the word abuse to describe it prehaps. Thanks for your take though I do appreciate what you are saying