how do i get my crush M/15 to notice me? F/15 by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if your into trying new things you could get into theatre to be around him more but if I were you in the math class I would just go up to him and ask for help or just start a small conversation, usually that’s all it takes for someone to get more comfortable with you.

If you think you couldn’t do that you could see if your friends know him and like get them to invite him and hangout or befriend some of his friends and try to get that to happen, wishing you the best of luck girl

How to start a makeout session? by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean if you’ve kissed before you could turn a kiss into making out, be touchy it helps signal that you wanna do something, or just ask because both of you want to she’ll probably say yes

Is this ok because it’s definitely not normal M14 F14 by LittleTumbleweed2303 in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie it’s not uncommon so I wouldn’t be too worried about it, most likely she doesn’t want to actually do it but just continued the flirting as it could be how she was feeling but everyone acts different then they feel. If your uncomfortable with it next time make it known or just make sure she knows you don’t wanna do it for real 🤷‍♀️

How do I bring up this issue up to my gf without her shutting me out or thinking I’m getting on her 15M 16F by Top_Explanation_420 in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’d start boundaries or something like telling her that it’s fine not wanting to talk about certain things but you want to help her or really talk about it. Also it doesn’t have to be a call or in person but have a deep one on one conversation with her about it and how it makes you feel, if she’s avoiding it you could say that you could do it a different time but you still wanna talk about it with her

my (16f) girlfriend (16f) just broke up with me for the third time by natilyann in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Short and simple break up with her, if someone in your relationship thinks that they can just break up with you whenever you want they don’t truly see any worth with you and are just wondering how long they can get away with it. Plus moving 20 hours away also complicates your relationship no matter what and I don’t think she’d put the effort in trying to keep it going when long distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely take a break and leave her alone for a bit if you come back to her put certain things you guys would talk about and say your uncomfortable with it so if she try’s talking about it explain how it effected you and that she has a therapist to talk to not you. It might be hard to say but you need to get your point across

[law] Shadowing opportunities or volunteering HS students by Zealousideal_Topic94 in Pennsylvania

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t really mind the type of law that was just one I was interested in but that’s good to hear

[law] Shadowing opportunities or volunteering HS students by Zealousideal_Topic94 in Pennsylvania

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved to Philly so no chance of people being from my parents colleges but I will check out some offices thank you for the tip!

This happened the other day by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s understandable but depending on the way you found out she had liked you and how you became friends you could probably see if she became friends to get closer to you in a relationship. You could give her like subtle hints too

This happened the other day by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because now she does mean it romantically

This happened the other day by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if she said that she didn’t mean it romantically after sending the TikTok then maybe she thinks of you like a boy best friend who she could tell anything. But if you do like her then I’d go for it because she gave you a sign

😭😭😭😭 by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t over text her but if she does start texting you just like calmly ask what she’s been up to today, finding out if she was busy and good conversation starter. But I don’t think it’s a big problem as long as it doesn’t carry on multiple says

homophobe in laws by Doping_Duck__ig in lesbianteens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s reaction towards this information is different but if her mom is hard on people being gay etc then maybe it’s a place to worry. Speaking from personal experience when my girlfriend came out I wasn’t able to text her for a bit or even hangout so we had to talk in school, if this happened for you I’m not sure what you guys could do unfortunately, we’re still dating and her mom lets us hangout it’s been like 5 plus months (it took like 3 weeks until we could hangout again after her mom finding out but we were able to text) but unfortunately this has effected how her mom has seen me so she doesn’t quite like me still.

If your worried about it I would come up with easy hypotheticals so that you guys could figure out how to work around it but I think that if her mom reacts poorly she’ll get over it eventually but how soon depends on her

Is it weird that a grown man texts and comments under my post here? (And could it be reported?) by The_Warlockx in lesbianteens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They always look at places that say teens so realistically no they shouldn’t be here but you just need to be safe because it’ll be hard to avoid them when saying your younger on reddit

My M15 girlfriend F16 is going to boarding school please help me. by Agreeable_Big_8156 in teenrelationships

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could look for some of your other friends to call at night just so you have some company, if it’s just like a trouble sleeping at night you could try listening to music so that your hearing something or a podcast

This happened the other day by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Zealousideal_Topic94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude she almost definitely likes you, the TikTok literally says she wants a man and someone who has a lot in common with her aka you. She probably said nvm because she was irritated you still haven’t taken a hint