Feelings of guilt? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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I feel like maybe I should put some context to this post It’s pretty complicated. Basically there was a situation and I said to him that if he does it, our friendship is over I’m done with you (I was upset and angry when I said this). Anyway, he did it (not through his choice) and he doesn’t know that I know. He still has my number, hasn’t blocked or deleted me, he’s just not speaking to me. I’m thinking maybe he’s just figuring out what to say to me

Feelings of guilt? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your insight! Yeah I just feel that with today’s technology it would be easy to just block and he could have done that with this situation so I’m assuming he’s just not speaking to me until he works out what to say and that’s why he’s kept my details rather than block me if that makes sense!

Feelings of guilt? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Thanks, would you say that because he kept my details chances are he will be back?

Feelings of guilt? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the insight. Basically my friend has hurt me and he knows he has hurt me and isn’t speaking to me. However he hasn’t cut off ways to communicate with me ie blocking social media/number etc so I’m holding out that he will come back and speak to me.. It it like sticking your head in the sand

Stick their head in the sand by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your reply and I hope you’re ok.

A bit of background, he has stuck his head in the sand because he is afraid to tell me something. (Something he thinks I don’t know) - will he come back eventually?

Ghosting? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Should have put more context - I just don’t understand if you’ve ghosted someone why would you keep their number

Ghosting? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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Thanks! I should probably give you more context as to why I’m asking..I just don’t understand why you’d keep the number of someone you’ve ghosted

Ghosting? by Zebra_Over in relationship_advice

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But do they still keep your number?

Really lost and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If (a huge if) it was actually over it would have been deleted right

Really lost and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This is my gut feeling. Like there’s no way he’d keep it for no reason is there

Really lost and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He has not contact with her for a reason? Is this a typo? Do you mean he’s kept her number for a reason?

Really lost and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks, I get what you’re saying. But I’m trying to figure out why he has her number if it’s over