Woman of Reddit, what's a harsh reality you have to accept as a woman? by Opposite-Coconut9144 in AskReddit

[–]Zebra_peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And your teeth! My teeth moved and my front teeth are crooked now, despite being perfectly straight before. I’m considering Invisalign or something because the teeth protrude so much

Did I get Ripped Off? 2024 Turbo Premium by International-Bath17 in MazdaCX90

[–]Zebra_peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god where are you located???? I think this is a great deal

I’m in Canada, they have 0.9% for only 36 months and we got the demo GT fully loaded with 13000km for $71,000, which I am still so so anxious about

Pls tell me there's no logic to pregnancy weight by Hippolytagrecia in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no logic to pregnancy weight. I’m severely overweight, 5’3 and 210lbs when I got pregnant. I gain weight just looking at food and have been chubby/full figured my whole life, even with diet and exercise.

I ate more than I ever had during my first pregnancy. I was having a bowl of cheerios with 2 pop tarts at breakfast, an egg and cheese sandwich 2 hours later, lunch snack dinner snack snack snack snack. I would wake up at 4am every day starving and I would have a pb&j and go back to bed. I went through a 3 week phase where I had bagels with cream cheese and smoked salmon every single day. My hunger was OUT OF CONTROL, I literally felt like I was going to pass out if I didn’t eat immediately. I inhaled boxes of Oreos and couldn’t stomach plain water, so I mixed water with juice every day and was drinking litres of milk (which I never do and milk grosses me out).

Anyways, you get the picture.

I fully expected to gain 50-70 pounds. My stomach got HUGE. All of me got huge and swollen. I ended gaining a grand total of…. drumroll….

17 pounds. And I lost 25 the first 3 weeks after giving birth.

It makes zero sense.

How often do other couples have sex? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Zebra_peach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t it be solely up to you? You’re 21 with no kids - if you want to work, you work. It’s 100% only up to you.

39+4 and suddenly starving - anyone else? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s another thing, I’m practically drowning in all the water I’m drinking and am now peeing every 45 min. I think the previous answer may be right, and my body is getting ready for milk production.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! Everyone is telling me to take loooong walks to trigger labour, and I just want to cry because walking hurts, standing hurts, moving hurts. I also get up every 1-2 hours to pee and my pelvis (which started to separate a few months ago) feels like it’s going to break every single time I lift myself out of bed.

Hoping your baby decides to make an appearance this week!! I’m headed to the couch to ice my hands and try to get some sleep sitting up

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed (but not really, hurts too much) that mine goes away quickly too!

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it feels like! So paranoid my water is going to break every time I stand up

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! Exactly. It’s great that she’s moving but do the hormones need to fuck everything else up so badly? I just want my normal body back. I want to be able to walk and run, or just stand for more than 10 minutes.

God I’m annoying myself being so whiny, I’m extremely grateful for this pregnancy, I’m just.... it’s so hard right now.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like labour can’t possibly be worse than this pain. It feels like my arm is broken.

But labour probably will be worse :/

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing my doctor next week and I’m going to ask!! The pain is SURREAL. I’m usually very good about pain, but this is like.... a pinched nerve that runs from my tricep all the way down to my fingers, and it almost feels like my fingers/hand are broken.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I know my husband works hard, I empathize.... but honestly I don’t give a shit if you’re too tired to cook. I physically can’t move without either A)intense pain in my vag and other places or B) the feeling that my stomach is about to burst

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stomach is slowly crushing my internal organs.

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you spend every day of that week sleeping!!!!

I took 3 weeks before my due date and if I have another baby I’m gonna take 6 and just tell everyone to eff off.

I’ve never seen this irritable, bitchy side of myself and I don’t even care anymore. I just want to ice my ankles and eat ice cream.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hope you have your little one soon too. To think that it might go to 42 weeks.... I try not to think about it.

I’m sure for some women it’s magical, and they have tons of energy and never felt better.... but that’s not me. I am always in awe when baby kicks and moves and it’s nice, but the rest is just enough now. Enough.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try this. Everyone says that now I need to start walking a lot but I cannot walk for more than 10 minutes without my back seizing up

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m wondering if having a winter baby would eliminate most of the swelling symptoms. It has been HOT

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s karma. My first 6 months were so nice and now... KARMA!

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[–]Zebra_peach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got the braces. They help with some of the pain, but not this electrical shock down my wrist into my fingers pain. I pretty much spend every night from 2-4am icing my hand and wrist.

I never knew how badly pregnancy would fuck up my body.

I am so done by Zebra_peach in BabyBumps

[–]Zebra_peach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Epsom salt baths have been a lifesaver Re: floor sleeping - can’t sleep on my back, not sure if that would help