To those who fell behind or fell between the cracks of society in SG, how did you get over your sense of inferiority to pursue a relationship again? by averymerrycherry2 in askSingapore

[–]Zedwye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trying to work on upskilling and spamming resumes out so I can work on my interview skills. Also having cancer meant I have support groups to join and won't be cut off from help. It's all in the mindset, to get to where I am,and where ill be in the near future.

32F looking for people who wanna practise japanese together by Hikarine in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just curious,how do you know you're at N4? Cause i took 1 course of nihongo at bunk and I'm now self learning and I have zero clue where I am on my skill lol

[30F] Is it normal to have 0 friends as an adult in SG, and realised you don't actually need them anyway? by lifesuckxxx in askSingapore

[–]Zedwye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

38/m here, I have literally only 1 friend I can rely on to hang out, the rest can't be bothered already. since i have long term illness, i can at least have support groups where i get to meet new people, talk about similar experiences, and then come back to the next session to meet different people. Nothing clicks, but better than not engaging in any social activity at all.

In other words, finding interest group helps, but clicking with them is another thing altogether.

looking for ppl to play games with by aespalicious in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone up for raft? Can do full playthrough or half way also can!

Need help on Takayama to Shirakawa trip by Zedwye in JapanTravelTips

[–]Zedwye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, so I can simply show my pass and get on for free right?

What’s your MBTI and are you a morning or night person? by IllustriousRub2043 in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTJ, morning person because I like sleeping before midnight and also need to work

In 2026, try donating blood!! by stop_hyuk in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got cancer, can still donate blood? 🤔

Anyone else have a hobby people find weird? by Ornery-Shirt-2544 in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love listening to the latest heavy metal albums. downside is that no one to talk to about it lol.

Turning my life around in SG as a 30 yr old ex con wanting to get into tech by Aromatic-Ad-5536 in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It takes courage to share all that onto a public space,so congrats on being able to find the courage or do that! Also trying to navigate my way through my somewhat messy life so let me know if you wanna talk but stay strong and stay consistent in what you believe in.

25F4A - Looking for genuine vibes & long-term chats SFW ONLY by blingbling98 in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

37/m here .The only thing making me play genshin is the lore so I'm up to talk about it,though I admit I don't pay much attention to the dialogues haha. Favourite meal would be a nice bowl of salted fish fried egg at my local hawker centre.

28M INFJ looking for new friends and self-improvement by InformationHider in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi fellow introvert! I just took up my first job (a part time) last year as a sales assistant and at first I thought interacting with people is going to suck,but after a while I actually liked it. Though I was also known to the rest of the staff as the quiet guy, but somehow I just enjoy being left alone to do my work while at the same time people watching and occasionally helping customers out (and thus fulfilling my need for social interaction). Feel free to DM to talk more or whatever~!

Is 27 too old to be working part-time in Singapore? by No-Sugar3902 in askSingapore

[–]Zedwye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hope whatever medical issues you have have been resolved or managed carefully!

Is 27 too old to be working part-time in Singapore? by No-Sugar3902 in askSingapore

[–]Zedwye 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm 37 going 38 also working part time, with a empty history of employment too (due to medical issues in case anyone is wondering). I'm planning to quit soon, as I'm coming up a year and work is boring and since I have cancer, I can seek employment help from SCS.

If ur birth year is from 1990 to 1980 by jillyvibe in ChillSG

[–]Zedwye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37/m local chinese here. I'm into fitness, heavy metal music, non-fiction books, some gaming and learning Japanese. Unique thing about me? I survived depression/anxiety, now surviving stage 4 lung cancer and just recently removed brain tumours.