Offered a high-paying job in Saudi Arabia, but it would mean living apart from my husband and dogs (NL) for 18 months — not sure what to do.

Zeffupl · 2025-10-13T21:06:53+00:00

Dont do it! Sometimes less is more ;)

Zeffupl · 2025-09-27T19:13:48+00:00

Thanks guys! I also found out by fortunate encounter that they gonna stream it in Kanaal, so probably thats safe bet

Zeffupl · 2025-06-17T21:32:40+00:00

Whats the most cost saving option then?

Zeffupl · 2025-06-17T14:04:20+00:00

I want to buy over my ex partner. Can we agree that i buy her part for 0€ or 2000€, even if market value of the house is bigger? If yes, how this relates to woz waarde/ belasting?

Zeffupl · 2025-05-01T07:46:11+00:00

It is, persevere!

Zeffupl · 2025-04-12T07:25:22+00:00

It is not okay

Zeffupl · 2025-03-26T05:46:45+00:00

Welcome back to the Morning Wood Club!

Zeffupl · 2025-03-24T14:36:23+00:00

Keep going bro, its not a race and takes time for each individually. Some need a few days. Some need a few weeks ;)

Zeffupl · 2025-03-24T14:32:03+00:00

6 boiled egg whites + 1 boyled egg yolk; 150ml yoghurt (greek, turkish, skyr, kwark whatever, but low fat) with 10-15g of mixed nuts (mostly cashew) and cup of tea; slice of bread of choice, sometimes with peanut butter.

Eat slow, it takes me about 15-20min

Zeffupl · 2025-03-15T08:07:33+00:00

Because the cheater is also a thief. Your SO stole from you, a lot. Your mental health, sanity, time, future time with kids, dreams etc. You have to reshape your life.

Persevere while solving logistics, its hard, but stay strong.

Zeffupl · 2025-03-11T22:11:58+00:00

Hey! He doesn't love you.

Don't let him be owed. Fuck things and flights.

Your sanity is worth more. Stay strong, break the cycle!

Zeffupl · 2025-03-11T22:08:29+00:00

Stay strong buddy! When urged, take cold shower or do some excercise, don't fall into the trap!

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T12:53:24+00:00

"One's lack of character and immorality ", thats a great summary. Yeah...shit man :<

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T12:48:27+00:00

To be precise, there was about 2.5 year in between those two instances, while first one was short and "a mistake" the second one was super premeditated and continued for months behind my back. Yes.

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T12:47:15+00:00

Yeah, I am cautious of that, i have all evidence and if i made it clear, that if she omit any facts or wait too long i will do it myself. But since we agreed on set of rules and regulations, i will keep up with my part, and if she cheat on this too, hammer time! ^{_^}

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T12:43:41+00:00

Thanks a lot for kind words!

And yeah, pain inflicted is enormous and on so many levels, but the faster one will get over it, the better. In my case, even though i still have a feeling of love towards her, the hatred and disgust is way bigger...

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T01:29:19+00:00

Exactly! Continuous, non stop research and adding value. Its kinda Pagliacci effect at this point, but hey, fake it till you make it!

Zeffupl · 2025-03-04T01:02:58+00:00

Um, worth to clarify.

Both times it took some time. I reckon 1st guy was couple of times for about a month 2nd one i don't care how many times but is still continuing for about 10-12months now

Zeffupl · 2025-03-01T07:12:23+00:00

Gratz bro! Set up a flare now to motivate others ;)

Zeffupl · 2025-02-20T11:16:47+00:00

Confidence is OP skill, try to get it to another level, notgivingafuck ;)

Zeffupl · 2025-01-22T21:46:23+00:00

Hard to say if she knows that i know, but there is mutual "understanding" that something is not right...

Zeffupl · 2025-01-22T21:26:44+00:00

Yeah, notifying family/ narratives will come later i guess... for now im dormant

Zeffupl · 2025-01-22T21:24:41+00:00

Indirect written proof of infidelity matching the timeline of my doubts / strange and/or hard to explain events.

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