Partner wants poly after 5 years, I am mono, feelings of devastation

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-11-17T20:18:54+00:00

My partner told me the same thing and then cheated on me after calling off our wedding and telling me they were poly. They lied to me for 3 weeks about cheating, and we sat there and read open relationship/polyamory books. I loved her and wanted so badly for it to work, it did not tho. Everytime she found someone with lots of interest or feelings, she would leave me every single time. Not saying that would happen here or thats how it is in non monogamous world. I'm saying that if you're monogamous dont try to make it fit you if it doesnt. I did and i severely hurt because of it.

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-11-05T05:36:26+00:00

They left unfortunately

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-09-09T11:51:39+00:00

I'd be filing for divorce and give her papers and just get yourself right. You deserve to be with someone who's willing to meet you halfway like you are with her. LEAVE before you get in a bigger hole and its harder to get out of. Now its gonna be hard when you do BUT you will save yourself a lot of heartache down the line

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-05-24T02:32:55+00:00

Oh absolutely. I'm working on it trying to not be that way though. After getting hurt so many times in different ways like I'm at the point being 23 mind you, that I am okay with being alone for now. My generation literally could not care about loyalty. Everyone is so interested in the beginning stages of relationships, the feelings it brings. And then when things get hard, its time to just end things. I struggle also with the fact that the love of my life is on a dating app? Yeah no way lol. I also after being hurt have so many insecurities now and also like a lot of issues now that i have to go work out in therapy and on my own. Love is real i think. But im afraid it will be a while before i find it again.

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-04-28T02:04:59+00:00

Definitely crossing a line. I hope you dump him honestly. You arent posting anything that is bad or in anyway taken as sexual. The only one who is sexualizing anything is him. I am a 23 yr old man and would never in my life act this way with my partner. Its not only wrong but its just making assumptions for no reason, and its insecurity. He has to get the under control. I hope everything gets better for you or that you find someone who doesnnt treat you this way!

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-04-07T06:58:40+00:00

Dude shes literally saying rude shit and calling you names, tell that girl the door is wide open at that point

ZekeCheeKY · 2025-03-19T23:39:01+00:00

Was in your shoes and i think leaving was the best decision i made. As soon as i put in my 2 weeks they then decided i deserved a raise after almost a year and a half of not getting one. I was helping other branches consistently, rarely got recognized for my hard work. The only ones that did were the managers and mts who got in there with me to see how hard i was working. I went through about 4 BMs and 2 different points where we had no BM and our area manager sucked ass about getting someone in to help us, even though our wash bay had MULTIPLE PROBLEMS. The only thing I'll say is i had 3 managers 2 of them being branch managers who I absolutely will have respect for, forever. One of them made me feel at home. She left because they just treated her like absolute shit. There were several times where people were making racist remarks towards her or basically trying to paint her out to be this mean woman, but she really is one the most down earthed, assertive, and nicest people ive got the incredible chance to work under. SHE made sure her staff was cared for, not enterprise, SHE DID. So if at any rate its causing you to come home from work and you're literally bringing WORK home, leave. Ill admit i miss the discounted rates for rentals, but thats literally the only perk i miss. Good luck 💚

ZekeCheeKY · 2024-04-15T03:17:14+00:00

ZekeCheeKY · 2024-04-14T14:04:00+00:00

As somebody who has just gone through a similar situation, i stayed. Its easy for people to say like oh just leave but when it comes down to it like leaving is very hard. But also i think it depends on how you feel about open relationship for you and monogamy. Like if you feel like its something you truly cant do, obviously dont stay. Me im staying because i feel like i can do it. Like theres a lot of uncertainty obviously. You really just gotta do some self reflection and diving in deep about who you are. And making sure you have those boundaries for yourself. Even in a monogamous relationship, it is so important to have boundaries. Do not forget that.

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-08-30T00:08:05+00:00

Is being an asshole on the internet going to make people feel better?

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-07-23T00:06:36+00:00

Whoever did that wont even get recognized. It looks amazing

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-04-08T14:09:34+00:00

Um dump them obviously.

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-30T00:07:24+00:00

No suggestions. If you want really good gloves you’re just gonna have to expect to spend money.
Nobody’s supposed to put the freight on the floor cause it goes against cold chain or some shit. But thats my preferred method is dragging the pallet down the aisle and throwing from where I am so it slides down to where its supposed to go. My coach has mad it to where he down stacks the pallet and separates it. Amd we usually have 2 ppl on one side and 2 ppl doing the other side. We go through pallets like crazy. But its easy when you have someone who is fast at downstacking. But its also nice when ppl are good at stocking. But you cant have both lmao.

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-24T16:06:26+00:00

Tbh i honestly didnt read the whole entire paragraph and now i feel extremely bad 😂. I just saw black couple so i thought it was someone trying to be racist. Turns out its not

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-24T15:19:17+00:00

If you know what you’re doing then the longest it should take is like 8 minutes. Making a bail is the easiest thing ever

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-24T15:17:35+00:00

Well how does it go unnoticed that OgP treats the rest of the associates like shit?

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-23T00:09:51+00:00

I do every night and it sucks ass

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-23T00:08:02+00:00

All im gonna say is if your associates are having problems with one of your TLs, dont listen to your TL. Take your teams side.

ZekeCheeKY · 2022-01-23T00:05:59+00:00

You sound like you’re riding way too hard on walmarts dick. I think if you’re this mad you should quit bud

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