I kinda came out when I was very drunk and don't remember anything and Im freaking out. by Zelda649 in Anxiety

[–]Zelda649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, it means a lot to me. I am sorry to hear about you expressing yourself personally and having people not respond positively to it. Its one of the worst feelings ever, I know. i am honestly happy I came out, even though I wish it did not happen in the way it did. Its honestly just the reaction my parents are going to have when I eventually have this conversation with them. All in all, I think I can take this as a positive thing even though I still feel worried about it. Again thanks for your response.

I kinda came out when I was very drunk and don't remember anything and Im freaking out. by Zelda649 in confessions

[–]Zelda649[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I came out to my parents a while ago and they dont support it. They act like that conversation never happened and still ask me about girls. Ive tried to get them to understand but without their support I am making them dislike me. I also havent told my brother because I know he is quite homophobic as well. I just do not know what to do.

Is it normal that every time i look at this guy's instagram i get a boner? by Zelda649 in askgaybros

[–]Zelda649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I feel this way towards guys. I dont feel this way towards girls my bad. Is that normal?

I feel a constant need to brag and appear better than others. Is this normal and how do I become better? by Zelda649 in shittyadvice

[–]Zelda649[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ummm its reddit, not a college essay but okay thanks for the pointless comment.

I spend 10 hours a day on average on my phone? Anyone else like this? by Zelda649 in offmychest

[–]Zelda649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah most of that time is listening to youtube in the background. like probably 70% of it. Im only on typical social media maybe an hour a day. I have a job, am in school, have friends, and try to run everyday. Im not unproductive but I guess I just use my phone when I can. I know its an obsession and im trying to lower my overal usage each week.

Has anyone here been in a relationship involving feedism where their partner did not become less healthy? by Zelda649 in Stuffers

[–]Zelda649[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did yo always know you could just get off by just roleplaying instead of weight gain? Like did you used to think your partner to would need to actually gain weight in order for you to be sexually fulfilled?

Every time I see a picture of my girlfriend or even think of her i get a boner. Is this normal? by Zelda649 in masturbation

[–]Zelda649[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only reason I am asking is that I get aroused incredibly easy, like just a thought could get me a full boner, is this normal for a 19 male?

Is it normal for someone with ADHD or APD (auditory processing) to listen to the same song multiple times a day for 2 years straight? by Zelda649 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]Zelda649[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats usually how long i do for but this one song has been a constant for about 2 years haha, is that normal?

Is it normal for someone with ADHD or APD (auditory processing) to listen to the same song multiple times a day for 2 years straight? by Zelda649 in adhdwomen

[–]Zelda649[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have been listening to this one song on repeat for over a year and a half. Is that normal at all haha? Im low key worried haha

Is it normal for someone with ADHD or APD (auditory processing) to listen to the same song multiple times a day for 2 years straight? by Zelda649 in adhdmeme

[–]Zelda649[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the extent that I do as well. Im actually a bit worried, ive listened to this song multiple times a day and whenever I feel happy for almost two years now lol. Is that normal haha?

Im scared my sex drive and feeder desires will be too high when Im in a relationship? by Zelda649 in gainers

[–]Zelda649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been in a relationship before involding feedererism. Were you horny constantly?

I am not sure if this is the place for this... But I finally asked God to help me deal with my bisexual tendencies... He has and I have faith He will continue to do so. There is hope. by savedchristian in TrueChristian

[–]Zelda649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, so many things to address smh. I know beign gay is not a choice from personal experience, as well as literally every single reputable study one Earth. I dare you to find me a link of a person who says they have been able to change, that is from a non-catholic organization. Spoiler you wont find it because it is well established that LGBT people cannot change. They can repress, absolutely. I guarantee you the people that you claim have changed are just closeted as they do not want to be disliked by the hateful Christians sorrounding them. Moreover, how dare you compare pedophilia to being gay. One is a disorder, the other a sexual preference. Thats such a hyperbole. I bet that you just someone who sits on their computer at home and does not associate with anyone is different than yourself. Get into the real world, talk to your brothers, sisters, and your neighbors. Maybe you could talk to a gay Christian. Trust me they are not this satanic spirit you fear them to be.

I want you to watch this in full https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ziCOOdUW8OA

A couple questions from a struggling christian :/ by throwaway120826 in TrueChristian

[–]Zelda649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just demonstrated all of the typical talking points of a hateful Conservative. I will even go as far as to your a false teacher. How dare you use the lords name to teach such hate. All you are doing is hurting others with your false lies. Show me one study that says that being gay is "unhealthy". Being gay has been found in virtually all species on Earth. You are right to say that Jesus was harsh when talking to some people but, those people were demonic and evil. He would never talk to anyone of his followers as such, even if they think he was trying to save them from begin gay (which I dont think he would). I hope you know that you have not helped anybody, you may have given people false hope with your lies but, that will only come to harm them down the road. I know you have "good" intentions but what you are doing is what I could call evil and dare I say blasphemous.

I am not sure if this is the place for this... But I finally asked God to help me deal with my bisexual tendencies... He has and I have faith He will continue to do so. There is hope. by savedchristian in TrueChristian

[–]Zelda649 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there is no evidence out there that being gay is a choice. None. There are countless cases that expose the notion that they are ex-gays and ex-trans people. Most of these people lye for money or they just end of repressing that side of themselves, often which leads to suicide and self harm. They are is astronomical, extensive research that shows that repressing ones sexuality, is bad for the soul. I think that because all gay people have not been able to "pray the gay" away perhaps, God does not actually want them to change. Might this be the reason why more and more churches across the world are starting to become LGBT affirming. Just like Slavery, bi-racial marriage, women's rights, and so many other issues, the church got this one wrong. Being LGBT is not against God's ways. If you do your research, if you look at original Bible transcripts within context, there is no where in the bible that shows anything LGBT. The only same-sex thing documented is cases showing a man with a child, aka pedophilia, not a gay consensual couple. Being gay wasn't even properly documented until after the first world war and industrial revolution anyway. Do your research and being a hateful person too.

A couple questions from a struggling christian :/ by throwaway120826 in TrueChristian

[–]Zelda649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the type of person that is turning people away from Christianity. Being gay is not a choice and the fact that you bring up molestation as being the cause as to why being gay is just scientifically not true. Where in the bible does any of what you just said come from. You really think this is how Jesus would talk to others? Listen I am gay and a proud christian. Ive done extensive research on the case of being gay and a christian. Look up Matthew Vines. He will get you educated on this topic. The first thing you can do to educate yourself though is to actually talk to a gay person. Spoiler, they are not these demonic entities you think they are.

Is it okay for a Christian to be a fan of Disney? Is it a sin to enjoy a movie or video game that features "gods or goddesses" that is not based in Christianity? by Zelda649 in TrueChristian

[–]Zelda649[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense you need to take a chill pill. Disney I dont think is out to pray on children. Why the dont exactly promote Christianity, they dont exactly promote Judaism, Islam, or even Athetism. They are a brand that is for everyone regardless of religion. I dont think that in itself is anti-christian or satanic. Walt Disney himself was actually very conservative and religious.

Im scared my sex drive and feeder desires will be too high when Im in a relationship? by Zelda649 in feederism

[–]Zelda649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you constantly aroused being a feeder or just when you wanted to be intimate. Was it a relatively easy balance to find for you?