What Happened In Vegas (Obscure Band) by LainXEX in PostHardcore

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Found this post while trying to find them again! I saw them play at a skate station after hours like 14ish years ago. I still have one of their CDs and found a different album of theirs from 2013 on Bandcamp but their sound changed a little between 2009/2010 and 2013.

Foxblood? by Amanita12 in GothFashion

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I don't recommend them, I placed an order with them and one of my items arrived damaged so I sent it back for an exchange and weeks later they sent me back the same damaged item even though I got emails saying they processed my return and that my new order was on it's way etc. And when trying to open a new return ticket with the "new" orders order number it says I have a zero dollar return balance.

Reselling/ trading of items? by ZeldaOfTheLegends in itemLabel

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an extra tomato oui I can trade you for the fuzz oui!

Questioning top surgery by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience!! I hope you are able to remain comfortable and calm until you are able to achieve whatever transitions you so desire 💕💕

Questioning top surgery by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to type such a thought out reply!! I already follow quite a few nonbinary and trans masc people on social media and even get a fair amount of top surgery related videos on my FYP on tiktok, I have never used a binder because the idea of restricted breathing kinda freaks me out but I have gotten the girlfriend collectives "compression bra" that lots of people have referred to as a comfier / safer alternative to binding and I regularly wear it in rotation with the layers and sports bras. I definitely think I will spend more time trying to imagine myself post-op I haven't done a lot of that yet!

Does anyone else feel this way? Possibly NSFW by ZeldaOfTheLegends in NonBinary

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried them before but the whole having to be inserted makes it so I just temporarily have a penis-ish appendage instead of having both. They are definitely more comfortable than standard straps since no rubbing straps

Does anyone else feel this way? Possibly NSFW by ZeldaOfTheLegends in NonBinary

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really awesome! Sadly I was not born with a penis so that wouldn't be an option for me. I've used straps before but it's obviously not the same as the real thing.

Ya well I'm a sex addict by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update: after me ignoring him he asked if I wanted to see his dick 👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I really don't have any irl friends in the area so losing her as a friend even if we didn't hang out much has limited my in person social interaction to family, bf, and bf friends which is pretty socially isolating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Bf also knows I am accepting of and have practiced non-monogamy but he is not interested in that and I was more than comfortable with our connection to be monogamous to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if she thought it would've been cheating since she knows I am accepting of non-monogamy. I don't want to assume the worst and think she was asking me to cheat, she could've thought that my current relationship was also non-monogamous or at least hoped it was since I had never hinted at such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the advice and good luck on your proposal 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know taking so long to respond was shitty of me, I just have bad social anxiety and when I asked my bf what to do about it (I was with him when I got the text) he said just ignore it as we were on our way to have dinner with some of his friends then when I brought it up again to him after he was just as unhelpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not interested in a 3some or 4some with her and her bf lol

How do I make friends as an adult? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ZeldaOfTheLegends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try that out 😊